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Why is it I can do what I like when I like but yet p** off with my man 4 letting me as I feel he doesn't care does he ?

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Asked By: Delightfu11deb 36-40, F  1 year ago

I no I should be happy with that which I am to a certain degree but I could say to him. Now I'm going away for a few days and he wouldn't flinch I'm sure I wouldnt let him do that I think you have to have your own space and freedom but I think to much indicates he isn't bothere trust me I know iv been in a possessive relationship to an it's not nice but I feel as though this is to far the other way so no I wouldn't want him to be possessive at all but I think you have to feel wanted to ..

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3 Answers to "Why is it I can do what I like when I like but yet p** off with my man 4 letting me as I feel he doesn't care does he ?"

  1. rivermaiden - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by rivermaiden Mar 31st, 2012 at 1:11PM

    the way I see it, its better to have someone who is liberal than overly possessive. now suppose he doesn't care anymore, then too its better at least he is not trying to dictate whereas the possessive ones cant let go off the control even when they dont want anything to do with you otherwise. of course there is a difference between letting you live your life and not being concerned at all, only you can tell the difference. i faced the same about a year ago but guess what:? i couldnt understand when he fell out of love with me and i kept thinking i should he happy that he doesnt interfere and lets me live my life. i used to have these little doubts that i used to brush away... anyway i hope things turn out differently for you, as it is you will know soon enough.

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  2. Delightfu11deb - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Delightfu11deb Mar 31st, 2012 at 2:21PM

    I dnt no if he has fallen out of love for me as I ask him and he says no I also give him the opportunity to Leave if he wanted to so I can find some who does love me I'm happy but just lonely we dnt do nothing I do it all on my own oh I guess I no what I should do I just didn't want another failed relationship and bring the little one up on my own again like I have done before ty for ya answer x

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  3. rodrwill1 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by rodrwill1 Mar 31st, 2012 at 12:18PM

    Would you prefer the complete opposite and have him control you? Dictating where you can and can't go? Arguing on a daily basis for ridiculous things like how when you when grocery shopping you took 47 minutes instead of the usual 43? He either trusts you, which is obviously a good thing, or simply doesn't care, which is clearly bad. Enjoy your independence and stop acting crazy. Notice I used the word "acting" so I'm not insulting you and calling you it.

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  4. Delightfu11deb - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Delightfu11deb Mar 31st, 2012 at 12:29PM

    Read the rest of what I rote course I dnt want him to be possesive been there too and it's awfull but I think he gives me to much freedom I could be out for 3 nights be home for one then stop out again he doesn't say nothing that's y I was wondering he doesn't care I'm not saying I didn't like it just makes me feel he doesn't care x

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  5. rodrwill1 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by rodrwill1 Mar 31st, 2012 at 12:31PM

    Then tell him that. Explain how you feel. He's the only one that can reassure you and eliminate those feelings.

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  6. towhead2 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by towhead2 Mar 31st, 2012 at 11:52AM

    (and you wonder why men can't figure women out)

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  7. Delightfu11deb - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Delightfu11deb Mar 31st, 2012 at 11:56AM

    I no I should be happy with tht which I am to a certain degree but I could say to him. Now I'm going away for a few days and he wouldn't flinch I'm sure I would t let him do that I think you have to have your own space and freedom but I think to much indicates he isn't bothere trust me I know iv been in a possessive relationship to an it's not nice but I feel as though this is to far te other way

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