Been wondering that myself!
My life has been very difficult and I think that has helped me be a good person
Because you don't have the cojones to defend your space or get what you want in life. It took me a long time to learn that you don't get what you deserve but what you take.
suffering makes one humble and gracious<br />
or it makes you bitter, and you die of it
Do you think that might be a tad whiney?
...Everyone in the pity pool-----it's heated!