Why is it okay for ppl to call me anorexic because I'm naturally skinny, but it's rude calling ppl fat?

I'm guessing the people calling you anorexic could stand to lose a few pounds. Google --> Hater =D

OR they want to get in your pants and they're using a 'neg' a negative comment to try to make you have a poor self image which is often followed by an invitation for you to tuck them into bed.

But seriously, these are the only 2 reasons i can come up with. No rational, happy/healthy/well adjusted person goes around calling others anorexic. I make that mistake often too, thinking that the person i'm speaking to is speaking from a rational point of view.

both are ******* rude. just 'cuz we have a fast metabolism doesn't mean we are anorexic -.-'

Consider the source: I was called anorexic by a therapist who was fat and on Weight Watchers for years. I am a grandmother; I watch what I eat, I eat three times a day; I exercise every day, three miles a day and do some push ups (she said that was excessive). Does that make me anorexic? According to her, I am. I know she is wrong. Ask any doctor if I am healthier then most women my age and they will say "yes".
It is a good thing to pay attention to our health; there is a problem in our society with obesity, diabetes, and heart disease~~wake up people!
Only you know if you have an issue with your weight and if it is not healthy whether you be too thin or too fat.
So yes, I do think about every meal because I want to be healthy. I feel good, I look 10 years younger then others my age, and I can walk faster and have more endurance then some fat 20, 30, and 40 yr olds.
I don't think people who are fat (or over weight) feel it is an insult to tell us we are too thin (or skinny) so just smile and say, "thank you". If they push more food in front of you, just say, "no thanks" and move on. They look up to us for having strength or willpower to say no. We can teach them with kindness. Don't get defensive, we are here to help each other. It matters not what you look like on the outside, it matters what you feel on the inside. We only live once as far as we know and this body is just a package. Beauty comes from within and if you put good things in, you will put good things out.

People are naturally fat too! It's genetic for most overwieght people yet they are expected to fight there nature so they don't offend.That's something that so many people will not accept so fat people are riduculed and insulted. I'm making T shirts in sixes 2x- 6x that say, " I beat Anorexia!"

I know how you feel. When I was very visably anorexic a lot of horrible things were said to me. Including 'you look like you're about to drop dead. what's wrong with you?'.

I just smiled and walked away and tried not to 'drop dead'.

It's not ok.