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Why is it so exciting to see another man do my wife?

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Despite the pedestrian rantings of some in response to this question (you know who you are), there are several reasons that most men find it such a turn on.

1. You value and trust your wife and wish for her to have many and varied experiences, including sexually. You have a strong enough relationship that you know that you can be supportive of her achieving pleasure from someone other than you and still go home together and deliriously in love at the end of the night.

2. It validates your own status. If you have a wife that other men desire, and if you control or maintain a fiction of control around who gets to have her, you are the ubermensch.

3. From a physiological standpoint, seeing your wife with another man triggers a stress response in your brain (felt most often as jealousy). This stress response creates a cascade of adrenalin and neurotransmitters, the result can be quite pleasant.

4. There are some types of psychological trauma that can lead a man to feel he is worthless and undeserving. Some men seek a cuckold lifestyle in order to repeat and reinforce these themes within themselves.

5. You have devalued your partner to the point that allowing her to be used in a sexual manner by someone else provides you satisfaction toward some kind of revenge or domination fantasy.

6. You and/or your partner have become bored or are in the midst of a very stressful time. You think that if you could just add some "spice", everything will be great.

Based on our experiences and the people we know "in the lifestyle", most people fall into one or more of these categories.

I don't pass judgment on any of these reasons, there are some that we avoid, but they are all equally valid to the ones that have them.
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Other 11 Answers to Why is it so exciting to see another man do my wife?


Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 11:39AM
Possibly because you have a sexual addiction? When are people going to start valuing marriage and respecting their partners? Do you really want someone to "do" your wife? She is a person, not an object or plaything.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 11:39AM
Because you are living out your latent homosexual urges through your wife, whom you consider to be "of you", you are nothing more than a disgusting pimp who should just go out and **** a man yourself and be done with it and leave your poor wife the hell alone.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 11:54AM
that is so far from love its just not love. maybe you cant satisfy her so you find someone who can. i love all my experences with my husband and dont need anyone else to try cause to me its sick and there wouldnt be any real love or passion. im so glad my husband loves me!!!!!!!!!
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 12:54PM
We know who the ***** in the relationship is.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 2:10PM
I love to see her face as she comes to ******, it is a great thrill for us both
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 6:05PM
It is a sexual fantasy or fetish, and it turns you on to see your partner sexual with another man, maybe you have the feeling you want to see people having sex etc or could be you like to know your wife is diserable to others, which makes you feel good
many have this feeling so you are not alone and many women also like to she their partner with another person also.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 6:16PM
Sneezes cuckold
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 6:32PM
Probably because you love her
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 8:50PM
I would assume that it's like having your own **** movie up close and personal.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 9:21PM
wow, very varied selection of answers but at the end of the day tthe only answer to your question must come from you...........deep down you already know why you want it and do it...........only then can you make real choices about acting this out.........and pass any self judgement......look inside and all will be revealed
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 11:16PM
When I get a bf I want him to be like you : )
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