Why is it so hard to find a good,hard working,honest, man without some wierd baggage nowadays.
7 Answers to "Why is it so hard to find a good,hard working,honest, man without some wierd baggage nowadays."
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No one is without baggage. If you want a good relationship, you have to find compatibility first, then establish honesty and trust and the last, most important thing: forgive each other and accept the other, as they are, completely. The concept of acceptance is not easy but it is actually the hardest. We think "our way" makes sense and others should adapt. We set up our expectations and then they can't meet them. In this situation, we think they failed, but really we have. Accepting another and "their way" is one of the hardest lessons to learn but it is what needs to be done in order for both of you to be free and respected as individuals while cherishing and enjoying your life together.
We are all individuals and none of us are perfect. If you want to be accepted and loved for all that you are and who you are, you have to find your way to acceptance and learn to be gentle and forgiving. And if the other person can't return this respect, honesty and acceptance, in kind, then the relationship is unbalanced and probably will fail.Like (2)
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yes because they dont produce them any more
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The same reason it is hard to find a woman like that. You have to look hard.
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because good guys are observers, they have no need to prove themselves, or show off in front of others, they are secure in being themselves.
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Love me, Love my dogs...
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Rolmao
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by charles849 1 Nov 12th, 2010 at 10:13AM
we are picky and tend to keep a low profile
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