Why is it so hard to find a nice guy?

It's not...there's one typing this comment right now!

Because there's only a good 10% of the men that are 'nice guys'. And you can only find them 10% of the time. And then they're only ready to find that girl 10% of the time.

I actually think that's a rational estimate. haha

It's not. There are nice guys all around. Where have you been looking?

There are plenty of nice people out there male and female. Why don't these people connect? because people are becoming increasingly closed off. Most people have so many qualification and preconditions to letting someone in their life, social hang-ups and walls that its hard to find anyone let alone a nice person.

80/20 rule i apply it to everything including men. whatever it is you want in a guy trust me there is a guy out there that is MOST of those things. granted there will be that 20% that maybe is a lil weird, quirky, off, crazy & that's ok too. i also am a firm believer that someone who attracts a tool is someone who may have some stuff to work out. i know i had a bad guy phase. seemed like the sweeter they were the more turned off i was. i matured & i know better. pay attention to those who treat you well.

Are you looking for the same type of guy over and over again and maybe thats why your having bad luck with men!!

I'm here!!

I do not know how old you are. But here are my answers:

they are all married (snatched up quickly)

And if you are thinking of the younger age because they are very selective and choose to develop relationships slowly and solidly and do not just go for reputation but character.

They will not hesitate to reject a woman everyone else thinks is great if that girl actually isn't.

They will not hesitate to accept a woman that everyone else gossips about and seemingly hates if that woman is a good woman.

Most woman do not have the patience for such standards and thus totally overlook the nice guy.

If you are a nice girl, nice guys will be drawn to you.

However I do agree that nice guys are hard to find these days, sadly- but a LOT easier to find than nice girls unfortunately.

I would like to think i'm a nice guy, but my ex would difer. I guess it depends what you are looking for out of man. Maybe you need to get out more often. Are you attractive? Do you take care of yourself? Maybe you rub men the wrong way. Well I hope this is helpfull. Goodluck.

The Simple Answer.You're Unwilling or Unable to look past a Mans Exterior,Both Physically and Finacially.For You,only Guys who look like This,and have That get the time Of Day from you.Give Guys ,who you May Not have in the past,A chance.What does it Cost You.Nothing.And you may be Suprised at How Many"Nice Guys"are out There.

Just look at the right places and oh, what defines nice for you also matters..

I wouldn't be too surprised if I was looking for scissors and couldn't find a pillow.

i found that when i changed myself, my behavior, the way i thought acted and my priorities, i tended to attract better guys. i used to not give a flying horse **** about myself and i would attract guys who didn't give a flying horse **** about me. now that i love myself and care for myself, and am bettering myself i have found a couple really great guys. i think this last one is the one though. good luck!

Because in your mind your idle man ,never exists in the real world

They're hiding... At least thats what I've been raised to believe. You really have to put passion into wanting to find a lover, genuinely, and sometimes searching isn't going to get you anywhere. Some things fall into place all on their own and thats best sometimes instead of feeling alone often because you keep thinking of 'him'.

It's Not.

Because they don't exist IMHO

Depends what you are looking for. Lots of women say they want nice guys but then reject them because they are boring.

Define "nice". LOL

Because they are often drowned out by the pigs.