Why is it so hard to find a partner who will accept you as you are+why when you are honest they lie?

Its not hard, just be what you are. You will find someone who will love you as you are. Never pretend. Forget about what they do. Lies dont gets carried in long run, it comes out.

If that's what you find.... hmmmm... Well, you know, there's such a thing in life as "mirroring" - which means that if you find something in a person that annoys you, they are mirroring to you something in yourself that you are being given the prompt to examine and possibly change. If it happens frequently, its a definite signal from the Universe that you have some unexamined business that needs your attention!

Its all good; because if it weren't for this signal about yourself, how would you know?

Mind you, there's nothing like a good, honest and accepting partner - on that I will agree!

It is hard if not close to impossible to be 100% real with someone and NEVER LIE...
We often lie when someone has a horrible haircut for example... and we say, "Really, your hair looks great!" Or how about when a friend asks if they look fat in their jeans...are you going to say, "Wow...you're butt looks huge!" Sometimes, we lie because we are chicken, sometimes we lie to spare someone hurt feelings, and sometimes we lie just because we get use to LYING. Not everyone that is...but many people di get into bad habits with lying. I guess it all depends on WHAT HE IS LYING ABOUT. If it is that he is lying about cheating on you...or looking at other woman like a total dirt bag for example...move on...you won't change him. Love can make us all feel insecure at times...really analize why you are feeling the way that you feel and MAKE SURE IT JUST ISN"T YOUR OWN INSECURITITES. True love doesn't come around everyday.