Why is it so hard to find help when you have been through Domestic Violence?
10 Answers to "Why is it so hard to find help when you have been through Domestic Violence?"
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I wish I knew...there's a stigma and the bull **** philosophy that it the women wouldn't be in that type of position if she didn't want to be. When I was in that type of situation I found out quick that I was on my own. If you need anybody to talk to sweetie, I'm here. :-)
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aww ty so much hun ♥ lord knows i need as much support as i can get right now, feel as if i want to give up, but my children are the one's making me hold on for dear lifeLike (1)
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I don't have kids but at the time I had pets that I pulled through for. It's hard. Just take one day at a time and be thankful that your out of the immediate danger. My thing happened 2008. It shaped me so much andI I still don't really trust anybody...but the guy got what he deserved and is long gone so at least I know he can't get to me anymore.
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It takes money and influence which we don't have. I asked that question nearly 24 yrs ago and it hasn't improved a lot. Also, the law has to go to the highest level to be changed and that isn't always the case.
It's up to us, the victims to keep on doing our best to make it better and better and improve services.Like (3)
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i know once i am strong enough and able i will be trying my hardest to make some laws change......it can only start with us right?
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The misinformation and myths society seems to perpetuate about DV and survivors just makes me ill. That makes it difficult to reach out to anyone. Law enforcement oftentimes lacks the sensitivity to work with survivors. I wish there were more resources out there. I escaped from a couple of abusive relationships, and I didn't really have anyone on my side...and worked with an agency for almost 2 years and couldn't reach out to them. It's very isolating. But I'm sending lots of positive energy and hugs your way, and my inbox is open if you need anyone to talk with.
Are there any other shelters around? I can't believe they just refused you and didn't help you find another place to go...that's ridiculous. :(Like (2)
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yes it is sad, and i will be making it a point to change that in the years to come
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I hope things will change in the years to come and wish you luck in making the change. I'm hoping to do the same.
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thank you God for being good to this woman - you are still alive and are breathing - you have been blessed to get through your horrific situation
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awww ty so much♥
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oh you're welcome :)
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Because 911 is very difficult to type when you're histerical.
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because say you got two black eyes, then everyone knows you've already been told twice.
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For men, it is incredibly hard. Even though the USA's CDC recently found that 52% of victims are male, there is huge stigma for battered men and virtually no support from government nor charity. In many countries, a man is best NOT going to the police because he is quite likely to be arrested or ejected from his house despite being the victim.
For women, contact your local government or do a web search and you should find someone to talk to, at least. You also can go direct to the police and expect to be believed, and helped.Like (1)
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It was difficult for me because my ex was a cop.
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wow, you say was so i am guessing that you got out? What courage and strength
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I was just to scared to stay...the only help I could find was my doctor. He bought me a bus ticket out of town and gave me a little money for a motel room.
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If your referring to support of others ,I would think they are leery to get involved knowing both parties . If your talking getting out that's easy leave when the person is not home. There are always shelters ,safe places for abuse victims .
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yes i tried to get help in my area and i was refused for a shelter.....called the domestic violence hotline and was told to go to the shelter that i was refused at
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How sad for you ,I would contact your local government this should not be so hard for you to get out . I wish I could help you ,If you would like and are in the US ,I will contact the local police and file a complaint as a concerned neighbor . I do hope you find help soon ,WTF is wrong with the services in your area is beyond me .Please try to get a restraining order .Though this means nothing at times to a enraged animal that would do such a thing . Prayers and hugs for you to be helped ASP !
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Posted by vickieprince Jan 24th, 2013 at 6:26AM
I had to help myself and I am stronger for it
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Reply by StabbedSurvivor Jan 24th, 2013 at 6:30AM
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Reply by vickieprince Jan 24th, 2013 at 6:39AM
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