who need friend when you got internet? * the sad moment where reality hit you back in the face and tell you YOU GOT NO REAL FRIEND * ***** please i got million of friend on the web...
Cause even close friends need a break. If you only have one close friend then you will burn them out because of the workload you put on them. Best to have two close friends that way they can share the burden of being your special friends.
Hell if I know, but it sure is depressing...
I've been looking for a good friend, not even a best friend for years. Everyone I run into is cool for a little bit, but then they lie and talk **** behind your back. They lead you on. I hate that. That's why I don't even bother trying anymore.
I dont know, i dont have any. :/
Everyone has different levels of intimacy that they are comfortable with. Perhaps you haven't run across many who are on your intimacy bandwidth.
Maybe you're a hard person to get close to.
Maybe you're just afraid to open up to anyone.
Maybe you're not a good friend ... you have to be a friend to have good friends.
Why is it so hard to be a close friend ?
Sweetheart, you are trying too hard. I am very sure there are lots of wonderful people around you who care about you. You have to first of all let go of the idea 'close friend'. friends are always close. That is why they are friends. Secondly, what do you mean by being 'open' ? do these people know everything about you ? do you know everything about them ? is openness a one way street or two way traffic ? as important as revealing oneself is listening to the other person. Have you been doing that ? Have you asked people what they think /feel. What they want to do ? Think about it.
Thats called marriage