Hi, N1808!<br />
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Two possibilities: <br />
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* He wants to tease you.<br />
* He wants you to look at him as your one and only hero. The thing about heroes is: They have no flaws, they have no weaknesses, they are always in control. Is he? If not, don't tell him. ;-)<br />
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Instead try this: TELL your hero what he wants to hear ("Oh Darling of Mine, You are my most secret dream come true, my one and only hero, so strong, so flawless, so sexy and I don't know how I could ever live without you" etc.). It works like charm. Try it! At least twice a day! Once a man knows he's his lady's hero he just CAN'T HELP opening up, and then he will tell her everything what is going on inside his mind and inside his heart. <br />
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I think that's the deal: A girl wants her man to tell her over and over again what a beauty she is in his eyes. On the other hand, the guy wants his girl to tell him over and over again what a hero he is in her eyes.<br />
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Good Luck! <br />
MrPer

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Its the struggle for power in relationships. You know, like being the first one to say "I love you".... you give up power until the other says I love you back.<br />
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Its hard to say what we really are thinking to our lovers. We are always trying to gauge how they will react. And if you aren't sure and are afraid of giving up too much power, you just keep it to yourself.<br />
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This power struggle I'm talking about ruins more relationships than does anything else. Surrender to each other is the only way to get over the power struggle.

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You should never find it hard to talk to your lover about any feelings. If you do you both have issues ...

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