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Why is it that female friends do not like you adding their husbands as friends on facebook?

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  1. vansoula - 26-30 years old

    Posted by vansoula Mar 11th, 2013 at 12:26PM

    its a fine line you don't cross its a code if you met them thru her your her friend not his so if things went south its her corner your suppose to be at n if things went south the l;ast thing she needs is to know her friend is friends with her ex n she doesn't want to see him and its a bit about trust n loyalty some things are best lefted as they are a loyal friend would know where they stand and not question the matter

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  2. PrettyPrecarious - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by PrettyPrecarious Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:04AM

    This is why Facebook is destroying lives. My fiancé and I came off Facebook long ago when it was causing problems in not just our relationship but many around us. People add people who they've never met just to have thousands of friends and all for what? To inform them that you just placed petrol in your car? Congratulations :p
    Why not try to see the situation from her point of view? Why can't you just speak to one another socially instead of via social networking only because its just filled with evil unfortunately. Words can be misconstrued and twisted. Just not worth it at all :/

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  3. galaxy3 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by galaxy3 Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:10AM

    Thanks for your sensible answer. You are right, people are just so paranoid and always looking to twist words around and take things the wrong way. God ever forbid a man complimenting another man's wife, there would be uproar thinking that he fancied her or something and the same goes for husbands too, if any of the wives made a compliment to them about something. The whole thing is totally absurd. You would think people would mature as they get older, not act like kids still in school, thanks alot for your reply.

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  4. PrettyPrecarious - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by PrettyPrecarious Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:27AM

    No worries darling and agree completely :)

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  5. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:54AM

    Women are so weird with each other; they actually think that their husbands are going to be snatched away; yet, it's ironic that those same women will complain like crazy to their other female friends how he's such a d***. Either you trust your husband, or you don't. If he loves you, but strays, almost guaranteed it's not the first time or the last time. Be nicer to your husband and stop with all your complaining. Maybe you have a good thing, but don't appreciate it enough.

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  6. SunnySmile - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by SunnySmile Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:55AM

    its strange that you ask this being a woman, but, there is no such thing as female friendship, unfortunately, so why risk your happiness?
    Unfortunately I'm yet to meet another female friend/acquaintance who is capable of actually being genuinely happy for another woman's happiness. I am capable of this, but I'm sad to say that maybe only one of my friends is able to be genuinely happy for another female. Maybe that's why we're still friends :)

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  7. amdee1 - 41-45 years old

    Posted by amdee1 Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:55AM

    They may have things going on behind the scenes with trust issues, not everyone likes to admit they have a cheating partner.

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  8. mrssgt - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by mrssgt Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:54AM

    maybe they don't trust you??!!

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  9. nani9999 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by nani9999 Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:51AM

    because they are not friends.they are thier life

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  10. littleonejade - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by littleonejade Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:26AM

    Lack of confindence of self

    trust in you or mate?

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  11. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:00AM

    Insecure, paranoid or clingy. I've been faced with it myself, not from my side but theirs and I eventually lost a good friend because of it.

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  12. galaxy3 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by galaxy3 Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:02AM

    Thanks for your sensible answer, this is what I have been looking for. People have such dirty minds and look into it the wrong way. You can't even be friends with a man these days without their wives thinking you want to get off with them, totally ridiculous these people are.

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  13. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by lessthanhero Mar 11th, 2013 at 11:10AM

    This is EP, people's minds will automatically assume its sexual. Anyway, a woman who is secure in her relationship will not worry if her bf/husband befriends a female. Some might find it shocking, but men and women can just be friends.

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  14. pinksfloyd - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by pinksfloyd Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:49AM

    do u really need this answering

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  15. galaxy3 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by galaxy3 Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:50AM

    Yes I do because if you are friends with their husbands too, then why not, they should trust you as friend surely?

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  16. pinksfloyd - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by pinksfloyd Mar 11th, 2013 at 10:53AM

    got a husband? or a boyfriend?

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