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Why is it that my boyfriend ask me if im happy with him?

We get along well and were happy spending time whole day together..Suddenly he just ask me this..Are you happy with me?Is it common for a guy to ask this?I think this is a girls common question to a guy..

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People need reassurance, I can rarely hear 'I love you' too many times from the lips of a serious g/f but that's just me. Positive reinforcement is essential. I've often advocated that outside of relationships too.

Posted 6 months ago

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simonereindl	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:11AM my boy friend does the same thing and he asks if im sick of him. i tell him no but i think they just ask because they want to know if the spark or conection is still there. Rated: +2Vote for this!
USloveMC	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:12AM well, in my case my boyfriend said that he had never been happier with anyone else.. he didn't want anyone else cuz he was always happy with me, but then he went through this thing where he was all sad and stressed out cuz "he wanted everything to be perfect for me" i guess he felt like i deserved more for some reason.. even though he's my everything.. never wanted nothin more! so maybe he's just doing that? Rated: +2Vote for this!
ladybug1234	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:12AM Your boyfriend needs assurance that you are indeed having a great time with him. Rated: +2Vote for this!
BellaFairy	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:12AM he wants to know if you still like him. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Hideme	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:12AM Men are just as insecure as women. I think everyone needs a little reassurance now and again. I don't think it's a strange question to ask, just one that needed an honest answer. Rated: +2Vote for this!
StudentofUnifying Life	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:12AM Either he really wants to know that you're happy with him, and wants reassurance, or he's not happy with something and this is his way of bringing up the subject indirectly. If it's the latter--I hate it when people do that. Rated: +2Vote for this!
zorbas	Posted May 27th, 2009 at 4:48PM You can accept this in either of two ways. One, that he remains insecure in your relationship or two, feels that he is not attentive enough to your needs. With the the first premise, examine what action you are purposefully or even innocently doing to create his insecurity. In the latter it is simply to state to state to him where you think he he may be operating inadequately on your behalf lastly, all relationships require a reaffirmation from time to time and this too may only be the case here also. Rated: +2Vote for this!
unicorn59	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:00PM We all wonder from time to time....He might just really care if you're happy, and he's doing his homework... Rated: +1Vote for this!
NiteMich	Posted May 23rd, 2009 at 6:31AM Probably because he isnt certain if you are or not - nothing wrong with asking a question, surely it's better than not communicating??? Rated: +1Vote for this!
misteramerica	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 10:57AM Ha is asking you that bc hs is gay. A MAN will do his best to make you happy and then live with the consequences eithot fretting over things. Rated: +1Vote for this!
dotan	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 11:23AM He is not confident or He suspects you have some other boyfriends. happyness is hard to find but easily broken. I can understand his feeling Rated: +1Vote for this!
hollyeagle	Posted May 23rd, 2009 at 11:48AM Hi Yangkee, He needs to have more self-confidence in other words he is weak and more experience in order to answer any question might cross his mind . Sam Rated: +1Vote for this!

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