People's likes and desires and such are spread along a continuum. The average guy may be more visual than the average woman, but that means that some women will be more visual than the average guy and some guys will be less visual than the average woman, and so on. <br />
As for two guys making out, well I've seen some gay **** guy-on-guy stuff that I have found hot because there were two really physically attractive guys and they were doing to each other oral stuff that we would usually be doing to our men and damn that was hot. So it all depends.<br />
Like you, I am baffled by why so many women do seem to fall for "bad boy" types who are really ********... but then, why are so many guys ruled by their small head rather than their big head when some large breasted chick lets them look down her blouse?
Yes, exactly, that does keep life interesting. (By the way, when I said I have enjoyed guy-on-guy ****, that only is scenes of making out and having oral sex -- once they get into anal, I have no interest in seeing any more.)