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Why is it the people we think are our best friends our the ones who are really our enemies ?

and sleep with the guys you like talk **** behind your back i thought we were friends

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  1. myah06 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by myah06 Nov 18th, 2011 at 7:24PM

    Because people do what they feel is best for themselves. It is not about you...it never was. People are just selfish these days.

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  2. theheartofmemphis - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by theheartofmemphis Nov 18th, 2011 at 6:41PM

    Because of jealousy most of the time..jealousy does nothing but cause troubls!!

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  3. northguy - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by northguy Nov 18th, 2011 at 6:39PM

    My dad said it best: "people are basically as*holes"

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  4. olddreams - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by olddreams Nov 18th, 2011 at 6:15PM

    And I thought I was a cynic.

    Best friends (like spouses and our children) know our most intimate secrets and our most vulnerable emotions. If they prove unworthy of our trust, they can use this knowledge to hurt very very deeply. Sometimes, they hurt us because they are hurting. Sometimes talking can restore the relationship. Sometimes it can not.

    But we need friend (and family.) Life is filled with gains and losses. If we live without friends, we never have to suffer betrayal, but we also never feel the love, joy, security, and fun of having friends.

    We run as a child, fall, scrape our knee, cry, getup, and run again. As a child we understand that their is sometimes bad with the good, but to live with out the good, is more painful than avoiding the hurts.

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  5. kcereo - 46-50 years old

    Posted by kcereo Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:48PM

    people who are our enemy's like to be very close and friends keep a distance because they don't need to know every thing like our enemy's do.

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  6. stillgrieving - 41-45 years old

    Posted by stillgrieving Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:44PM

    they were never your friend in the first place. My real friends would never do that to me I trust them totally and completely. I am sorry if you don't have that in your life....

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  7. BuckarooBonzai - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by BuckarooBonzai Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:41PM

    Use common sense when picking your friends

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  8. adamlevinemine9 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by adamlevinemine9 Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:42PM

    we had so much in common we liked boys making fun of stuff should i make friends with a lesbo then

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  9. BuckarooBonzai - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by BuckarooBonzai Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:46PM

    Yeah why not!

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  10. RosaElaPilarGoens - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by RosaElaPilarGoens Nov 18th, 2011 at 5:40PM

    Omg this is so true! i guess its cos we connect to them while were young got hru life thinkin you two are still friends until you realize that so called best friend is a **** and means nothing to you.. we're just naive sometimes.

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