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Why is it this hard to find a good boyfriend?

I got out of a 2 year relationship and its hard being gay. you don't know who is gay. where to find someone. or anything. some advise please.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 12:57AM
Oh bloody hell. Fort collins colorado. You would have more guys beating down your door than you could deal with.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 4:52AM
I never had gay shortage. What is that like dear.
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Posted Jul 15th, 2009 at 11:37PM
Part of it could be where you live. Is it a very accepting neighborhood? If not, consider moving. If moving isn't an option, try the internet. Free dating sites such as okcupid.com can be very helpful (though beware of creepers!) Ok Cupid is a very friendly and helpful site for people of all orientations.
I also suggest you try some new activities. If you don't find a boyfriend, at least you'll find some new friends to hang out with.
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Posted Jul 15th, 2009 at 11:38PM
Why not have your friends introduce you to guys that they know?
That way you know they are nice guys, cuz they are friends of your friends and you would know they are gay.
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Posted Jul 15th, 2009 at 11:38PM
hmmm...well I'd say a gay bar...but just like a straight person u don't really wanna meet a guy in a bar...maybe u should look up local singles' communities in ur area? Maybe they have gay speed dating or something. Or (not to sound stereotypical) but try places gay men tend to hang out- art galleries, fashion-y things...i'm not really sure cuz my aunt's gay...i think it's harder for men than it is women..but isn't it kind of obvious to pick out most gay men? I'm not gay but I can tell (and I don't just mean the flamboyantly gay ones either) usually after spending a little while w/ a person. I lived in San Francisco though...sometimes i mistakenly thought straight men were gay...**trying to help**
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Posted Jul 15th, 2009 at 11:40PM
Well, most guys are *******s. Just look for someone not all about themselves. Find a straight male friend first. They usually know someone who is gay and they can be objective for you. Plus, a straight guy can usually spot some other person who is gay. Seriously.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 3:44AM
Being a boy what attraction do you feel in guys? Is not it dirty.
In pakistan pathans caste guys are famous as gay.
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