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Asked By: MissTrip 22-25, F  4 months ago

I actually hate associating myself with the idea of love... meh..why bother?

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    sniperblue - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by sniperblue Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:01AM

    you are doing it wrong.......try more lube.....

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  1. MissTrip - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by MissTrip Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:01AM

    haha :D

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  1. BlackDaisee - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by BlackDaisee Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:02AM

    No idea, but I agree completely.

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  2. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:01AM

    Its not always so painful... but is has always been painful to you. There is something more to it that you haven't experienced yet probably.

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  3. MissTrip - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by MissTrip Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:03AM

    I have experienced the good bits, but they are too short-lived. but overall, longing for someone and wishing they wanted you as much as you want them,is morelt every thime. difficu

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  4. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:04AM

    I totally understand what your saying... I really do... /hugs, you'll be ok :)

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  5. lookingforanexit - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by lookingforanexit Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:01AM

    I don't know, but I am feeling the same way at the moment.

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  6. MissTrip - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by MissTrip Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:03AM

    :( kinda sucks, right?

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  7. lookingforanexit - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by lookingforanexit Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:07AM

    Sure as heck does...just when you think things could get no better...Wham!! It crashes. :-(

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  8. Daledale6557 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Daledale6557 Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:49PM

    Its only painful if it doesn't work, and ya it hurts like hell. When it works it wonderful!!
    But I would rather loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

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  9. SkrimpNTacos - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by SkrimpNTacos Jan 14th, 2013 at 4:11PM

    The reason why love hurts for you is how you present yourself. What I mean is what are your true beliefs about love? And what ever you believe is how you present them on to the outside world. When you meet someone are you quick to fall in "love" with them? Are you the first to say "I love" you within a short period of time. Sounds like that you really never taken the time to know and get an understanding of what "love" is and "loving" self. Because once you love yourself and take your time with that person, you'll see ahead of time if that person is worth your time or not.

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  10. lezkiss - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lezkiss Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:45AM

    I feel that way too!

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  11. TheRQCKSTARZz0ne - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by TheRQCKSTARZz0ne Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:10AM

    Cuz it attacks the heart

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  12. jackblasio - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jackblasio Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:07AM

    Some of us are just plain miserable...you gotta know what really makes you happy, then go for it...prolly.....

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  13. Coyotedave611 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Coyotedave611 Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:06AM

    Mabe you are self-fufilling your own negative expectations, perhaps remind yourself daily that you are NO longer manifesting painful situations into your life, you can break this cycle and be happy.

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  14. Evergreengirl - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Evergreengirl Jan 14th, 2013 at 2:04AM

    Because most people are selfish ;-(

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