I guess because people have complex feelings and complex backgrounds. Also, people come with lots of baggage.
LOVE itself is not complicated, its just that the two person make it complicated because of less understanding, communication and forgiveness. LOVE is the only way to have our main goal in life which is HAPPINESS. Love is just a simple abstract which everybody have. Only people make this simple thing complicated.
I personally believe love is not complicated, it is actually very simple but we make it complicated, when love exists then complication should not, because with love comes listening, understanding, appreciation and forgiveness and the ability to communicate all together. Sometimes love can seems complicated when we do not follow our hearts. Yes we might love someone, however if we know in our hearts they no longer love us, then we also have to listen to our hearts when they tell us to walk away. A situation like this for example could make love "complicated"
Because people serch in the partner a projection of themselves. Everybody belives he need to meet somebody who makes him happy and don't understand that firstly need to meet himself.<br />
You are the only person who can make happy yourself. The real love is much more than what we belive.....the real love is compassion for suffering people, is service and care for them, and love between a man and a woman is ex<x>pression of this, is a profecy of universal love.<br />
So.....loving somebody, we accept to hold the same cross. Unfortunately, few of us is able to realize and accept something like this.
Love is not complicated. It is us humans that make something so simple, so complicated.
I have to believe part of it is that we have certain expectations and then have the rug pulled out from us when the other person doesn't meet them or something unforeseen happens to change the circumstances of the marriage. Huge challenges and no prior experience can throw a monkey-wrench into the situation.
Love isn't complicated. It's the dating/courtship game that we play that's complicated.