Stay single, makes life simple.
I suppose there is a dance of carefully choreographed revelations in the beginning, complicated by the fact that we don't know exactly what we're seeing or putting on display. No one likes to be judged poorly, and incompatibility can become apparent at the most inopportune times.
Love is complicated because we make it that way. We decide how to react to other people and what feeling to share or not to share. People alone are complicated it's bound to be that two people together will be complicated even more.
Divorce kinda disproves your choice theory, if our vows reflect our choices.
People are complicated not love
Things are only as complicated as we allow them to be. Love is no exception — remember that everybody is different and to never let someone else's 'advice' sway your own view/standpoint. If you and your partner are able to bypass mind-games and trial time of typical dating, by saying from the get-go what you want and expect out of the relationship for its duration. Communication is the key to many relationships—not just intimate ones—and every person handles/expresses/views things differently. (e.g.: you talk to a friend or parent as an outlet and gain advice, but maybe they release themselves in other ways like writing/art/sex/forums...and rather keep quiet and work it out alone) You give each other time to gather thoughts before saying them, allow the silence to grow as they look for courage to say or suggest something...we all fear rejection, and we're all a little insecure. Love is many things: it's scary, it's a huge leap, and it hits your emotions in every way possible. But it's not complicated, not if you can accept that there will always be scary negative emotions as well as good positive ones...and keep in mind that you're most likely not the only one in the relationship who is feeling such things.
Humans have a knack for (even if only subconsciously) dramatics, and therefore create the complications.
we are each different
CUz itss LOVE..love is complicated <3 <3
It's not really but people are
its not its a simple emotion, exaggerated by our culture but peoples minds **** with them if other people arent bad enough
You made it complicated