I dated a girl like this once off and on for a while. The sooner you cut off all contact with her the better. She's keeping you on the back burner. If anything or anyone else comes up then she'll cancel on you. I got my revenge eventually though. She called out of the blue about a year and a half after we had cut off contact. She wanted to hang out and I was already drunk so I said sure. I went and spent the night at her place, we had sex, and when she texted/called the next few days I gave her no response. I wanted to say how's it feel you B itch, but decided that no answer would be better.
security and safety in the familiar. easier to string along and play out an existing subset than to seek new friends. you are a confidence builder, you are being used. you poor niave supportive bastard. i genuinely feel your pain bro. <br />
you will/are building her confidence, she will feel better about herself - and will finally start ******* other dudes and move on.<br />
i suggest u discontinue contact and tell her to leave u the **** alone.<br />
and keep it moving. plenty of nice ladies who wont do u like that man.<br />
be mature how she will feel if she still attempts to play with you..
Lol... I have had this experience. Too many times, I have allowed myself to get ready and wait for NOTHING... Don't buy in to the self gratification seeking types. They'll only keep you waiting. The minute something more interesting makes its availability to them, they jump ship. I often wonder if there's just a laundry list that is called and I am just a number...
The negativity will drown you. She doesn't seem to feel anything your doing that isn't attention to her is worthy of your time.
She is hanging on to you until she can have someone else. She wants the securety that you are still at her beck and call. Ditch her, she's using you
Block her number.
Little girl games
probably just seeing if your still a guy she can have as backup in case she is dumped by someone ..is bored etc. ....do not let her use you like that...tell her you have plans even if you don't...only going to cause you frustration and pain if you give in.