Coz we are a spooooooky
Well no more or less than hetrosexuality is about sex. Depends on the couple involved not the sexuality of the people involved.
To elaborate - some women think that the only reason a lesbian would want to get to know her is because she is attracted to her. Which makes zero sense to me. I have mates of both sexes. No way would I want to jump in the sack with them.
Sad to say but if your friend doesn't want to get it, then she won't get it no matter what words you use to try and convince her. I come across people like that all the time. I personally don't waste my breath on them. I remember when I came out (a long time ago now) I had some female friends genuinely shocked saying to me "OMG you are gay?? How come you never hit on me then??!" Erm.... newsflash because I don't find you attractive, and you are straight!!! lol - it's such a huge misconception with some straight women. The same misconception some ignorant straight people have that their sexuality ties in with pedophillia. I think to myself sometimes ffs - how ignorant can some people still be!! But there ya go, it is what it is at the end of the day. If ignorant people don't care to get themselves educated with facts then not a damn thing we can do about it.
Meant to say *gay men and pedophillia. sorry. Missed it out by mistake