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Why is that women will shy away if you speak your heart (honestly), but will be attracted to you when you ignore them?

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    LonexWolf - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by LonexWolf May 27th, 2012 at 7:30AM

    I'm quite the opposite. Attention given= attention received. I think that if you come on too strong, it will scare them away because they only want to get to know you. When you ignore them, they may think, "Alright, now that he's a little toned down, let's give it a shot!".

    Or maybe they want what they can't have. Don't we all?

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  1. Quianominorleo - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by Quianominorleo May 30th, 2012 at 1:25PM

    I remember a woman I worked with telling me that a woman always wants what she can't have. It kind of surprised me, but my experiences have validated that statement to a large extent.

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  2. LonexWolf - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by LonexWolf May 30th, 2012 at 7:50PM

    Oh that's not a "women" thing, that's a human thing. I've seen it happen with guys as well.

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16 Answers to "Why is that women will shy away if you speak your heart (honestly), but will be attracted to you when you ignore them?"

  1. EpoxyMonoxide - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by EpoxyMonoxide May 27th, 2012 at 2:39AM

    women are sick of yes-men. We like someone who will challenge us, and has a mind of their own

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  2. wingsgirl - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by wingsgirl May 27th, 2012 at 2:42AM

    i like a guy after an argument...not when he nods all the time. :)

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  3. FightingTheWorld123 - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by FightingTheWorld123 May 27th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    seriously i think its the exact opposite. girls hate it when guys lie or decide not to give them attention

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  4. FlowersNButterflies - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by FlowersNButterflies May 27th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    That isn't true. There has to be something else that is scaring them away from you. Intensity? Rushing? Tryingtoo hard? Expecting too much?

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  5. FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FallenAngelWOOT May 27th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    Why is it so hard for women to find men that are sensitive, caring, and good-looking? Because those men already have boyfriends.

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  6. Vipy - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Vipy May 27th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    I know huh.

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  7. wingsgirl - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by wingsgirl May 27th, 2012 at 2:37AM

    sounds like me...i run away from all the guys who talk mushy romantic things....scary!

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  8. Nodame95 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Nodame95 May 27th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    haha!

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  9. re8wqe45 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by re8wqe45 May 12th, 2013 at 9:48PM

    Some women are just as shy as some men are.

    I think that people need to take things slowly so that they can build solid and healthy relationships.

    If a couple decide to get married after meeting and knowing each other for a short time, they may result in divorcing each other eventually. The reason I say that is because they would learn more information (good and bad) about each other while they are married.

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  10. Scooby0313 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Scooby0313 Aug 13th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    Because we're weird like that, lol.

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  11. Boallods - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by Boallods May 27th, 2012 at 4:59AM

    it happened to me, lots of times. I think that women are just too emotional and that they get shy when love comes in.

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  12. pal7 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by pal7 May 27th, 2012 at 3:09AM

    very few boys speak anything from heart..they just do flirt, they just do time pass, they want to spent some time with you, want to go outside for movie and all that (they rarely be serious for you) and when you don't response them in their desired way(bcoz most of the gal are shy type,they like them but get fails to express their feelings), they get bored and leave you and go away from you to search another one.And when you face their ignorance and see them with another gal then you realize that how much u love them. :( but its too late till then bcoz the guy has gone so far from you.. :(

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  13. dillingermaster - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by dillingermaster May 27th, 2012 at 2:52AM

    Come on, we're guys. We don't get subtle hints; we can't even pay attention for five seconds. So I think a lot of women out there get freaked out when a guy speaks his mind, because it's something that so few guys do. Most guys keep their feelings bottled up inside.

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  14. Mrsteacup19 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Mrsteacup19 May 27th, 2012 at 2:46AM

    Boo I wish i had a man that was honest from the heart and said what he feels but there aren't too many around. Most guys shy away when I open up I don't think they understand I don't live sharing my heart or feelings either but it's necessary when you with someone.

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  15. Vipy - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Vipy May 27th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    Well um, I like people who speak out honestly and with their heart. I like to do that too, but most people I met hate the truth.

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  16. prettyintense27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by prettyintense27 May 27th, 2012 at 2:40AM

    Those are the ignorant ones who aren't used to being treated right, I love an honest man.

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  17. iatso - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by iatso May 27th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    Most females are not use to it.

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  18. BlackSuperman - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by BlackSuperman May 27th, 2012 at 2:38AM

    Because women in your age group are looking for a 'spark'... also, they don't know what they want just yet. Time balances it all out.

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