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Why isn't this guy trying to rush into a relationship with me? Why is he taking everything so slowly?

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9 Answers to "Why isn't this guy trying to rush into a relationship with me? Why is he taking everything so slowly?"

  1. scotsmitch2001 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by scotsmitch2001 May 14th, 2012 at 3:38AM

    Just read most replies and agree with most. Looks like he likes you. That he doesn't want to "rush" you.
    You may have to let him know how you feel. Have you?

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  2. ThornyJean - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by ThornyJean May 14th, 2012 at 12:29AM

    Because anything worth having is worth waiting for. When I met my boyfriend he had many "open" relationships. He had had his heart broke many times in a row so when I met him he was not in a hurry to find a serious relationship. For almost six months I was one of many he dated. In the end, he broke it off with all of them but me. We have been committed and totally happy for three years now.

    Slow and steady (without pressure) wins the race.

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  3. Blessedbeauty27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Blessedbeauty27 May 14th, 2012 at 12:30AM

    Awwww that's so encouraging!!! Thanks 😊

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  4. whatevercujo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by whatevercujo May 14th, 2012 at 12:27AM

    this guy could be shy, he could be scared, he might have been hurt in the past. there are several reasons that hes not rushing. he could be doing it out of respect for you, not wanting to pressure you. he could also feel that if he rushes, you might think hes only after one thing. there are so many options here, the best way to find out is to simply ask him.

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  5. FlowersNButterflies - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by FlowersNButterflies May 14th, 2012 at 12:47AM

    Because he is not needy or a control freak?

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  6. snoopy5345 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by snoopy5345 May 14th, 2012 at 12:28AM

    why rush.

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  7. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout May 14th, 2012 at 12:26AM

    jeez. can't win with you girls huh?.. too fast , too slow..?..

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  8. Blessedbeauty27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Blessedbeauty27 May 14th, 2012 at 12:32AM

    Lol!!!

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  9. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by WhiteWidowess May 14th, 2012 at 12:23AM

    The chase is the most fun.

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  10. Blurbel - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Blurbel May 14th, 2012 at 12:23AM

    probably worried of everything going south, wants to protect himself by not getting too attached too quickly.

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  11. 3grnowl - 26-30 years old

    Posted by 3grnowl May 14th, 2012 at 12:23AM

    Maybe he is enjoying the journey and doesn't want it to end.

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