Why its me who has to suffer?

Asked By: teengurl 13-15, F 3 months ago

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Posted by GwydionFrost 1 Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:54AM

If we knew from what, we might be able to better answer this question, without it being general platitudes of "we all are" and "it will make you stronger"... which all sound like crap when you are the one in the middle of it all.

So, spill it. What's going on...?

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Reply by teengurl Mar 15th, 2013 at 6:02AM

i m lonely
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Reply by GwydionFrost Mar 15th, 2013 at 6:00PM

Understandable. Humans are social animals. We need each other. So, where is everyone around you...? Because you most certainly aren't alone-- there are over 7 billion humans on the planet-- you really can't ever be alone nowadays.
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8 Answers to "Why its me who has to suffer?"

Posted by DivineEsperDragon Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:55AM

Because that's life and in life all people suffer at least to some degree and some far worse than others. You really don't want to try comparing yourself to everyone when it comes to suffering as there is always someone out there who has it worse than you do.

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Posted by MrWinstonSmith Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:36AM

We all have to suffer, but those who can suffer without losing the goodness in their hearts can learn from their suffering, and become better people, or even use their experience to help others.

Your suffering is a gift, it is a set of tools with which to help others, and with which you can grow yourself.

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Posted by DreamingTaoTiger Mar 15th, 2013 at 2:28AM

Suffering is always caused from earthly desires. Understanding the source of your pain and meditating upon the need of the desire will give you insigts to guide you to a path....for some this is about letting go whilst for others it is exploration. But understanding itself can be a life lesson to better ourselves.

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Posted by benetal Mar 15th, 2013 at 2:07AM

Jobe asked the same thing.

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Posted by AngelAisha Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:53AM

I'm suffering from every side : Family, friends and college. And its always been like that for me. Guess this will make you feel better.

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Posted by Vanda Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:40AM

well, here is the good news, i am also suffering..

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Posted by BlueTheWarrior Mar 15th, 2013 at 1:34AM

Who told you you're the only one suffering? :)

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