Life is always hard, people have it worse. Friends are the least important things that should be on your mind right now. Not sure what's going on but, you should focus on life and allow yourself to be an attraction for people that you might have by your side in life. And stop worrying about what other people have, concern for yourself, if you're always miserable and pessimistic who will want to be around you? Be positive, you could be homeless or in a worser situation.
No. Life is not fair to people in general, there are hardships and obstacles, experiences and things you have to learn to survive and equip yourself with the wits to be prepared for it all. Well considering I'm two years older than you....I've seen and experienced a lot so I'm telling you this from what I endured. I understand when you're caught up in your own web of emotions, it's hard to snap free. Just keep positive, you are VERY young. So just enjoy life for what it is, most people our age are either homeless, jailed, six feet under or worse. So let's be grateful okay? ;)
It gets easier when you experience more, trust me! That's the attitude ;) You are most welcome. Respecting Wolf and the resolve to change, Lushiro ~
when i was younger, i had a lot of friends, much more than my sisters. but as fast as the time pass by, the number of my friends fades until i almost lost everyone. i still had two which i, once in a blue moon try to communicate with when time comes i can no longer keep my burdens. i couldn't say they were real but atleast they still consider me as their friend today.
our circumstances might not be identical but i feel for u. i know how it feels when people around u comes in group while ur standing alone. but don't lose faith. time'll come (though i'm not really sure) everyone would chase after us and would die to get a simple hello. lol.
just be patient and wait. whenever u feel weary, remember that ur the only one waiting, i'm here. :)
my last sentence was incomplete. there must be a 'not' there. 'ur not the only one, i'm here.'
anyway, yup. i'm just here. that's the least i could offer. :)
Just like me. I have a twin sister and she have more friends than I have (even if it's not much). My problem is that I don't talk a lot. She does.
Maybe you should analyze what's the reason why?
And I agree with Lushiro, focus on life.
And I cite another users comment, not exactly the same, but in simmilar (sorry, can't remember the username): "Somewhere there is a girl or a boy who will be your friend you'll meet at your job, or the boyfriend/husband to be yours. Focus on school and your educations, prepare you for your life and them."
I am your situation right now so I know how it feels, I am sad and it's like everything falling apart. If you need to talk, pm me. :) hop it feels better soon
Yeah, your welcome. I have to talk to someone too, who understand. It's a hard feeling. :) But there's a problem: I can't go on you profile to mesage you...
ha, already sent a message :) It stand that you have set your profile so no one can see you, exept friends. It doesn't stood that but that is what I think
I am sorry you're going thru this. You and your sister are different people yet the same. Your sister may have an easy going persona and you may be the same but not quite the same. Are you confident? Are you happy? I am in the same boat as you, I don't have much confidence within myself. Try not to worry too much and go with the flow. Once you stop caring about not having many friends, they will come. Talking from experience.
Not really but i can't complain cuz I don't have to worry abt entertaining a bf and my health is good. I am glad u r coping with it and if u ever need an advice u can contact me here. Stay strong.
My life seems quite similar too. The main reason I dont have friends is because I easily hate people for their imperfection.
dear hav u ever tried friending someone.
having good frnds is wat that matters
surely good frnds can really help out in miseries.
atleast some one who u can share ur miseries with
u can try some one here too.
u will b alright