Your mom is the classic narcissistic mom.. Google the term, "narcissistic mom", and at least you will have more understanding.

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i am so sorry that she is doing this to u. u understand the significance of what u have accomplished right? u do it 4 u not necessarly 4 her. but i also understand the need to try to pleas. but dont stop believing in urself.

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Thank you so much. Yes, right.<br />I'm trying to make her proud of me, but that's will never happen.

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Talk to your mom and tell her how it makes you feel when she puts you down. It sounds like you have a lot on the ball and that you are doing the very best that you can. You should also let her know that her putting you down all the time doesn't give you any incentive to do better. But most of all don't let the things she says make you start to care less about your school work and your goals in live. Keep on doing your best and in the end you will prove her wrong by getting your degree and getting a great job.

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Thank you so much. I've tried to talk with her, but she doesn't want to listen. I'm the one of best student in class and she is not proud of me. She always put me down.She doesn't believe that I could get in university.<br /><br />Thank you so much. I prove her wrong.

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you know, i think that she loves you and she wants u to be THE BEST. <br />
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sometimes when u hear about urself words like.."ur the best", "u're perfect" and so on, actually almost all of us get like little ,,,you know,,,lazy... it's kind of ....oh well, i am good, i am perfect so i can relax little. THAT'Z ALRIGHT to me :-) i totally agree with that, coz as u said every1 needs to live!!!!!! <br />
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I thing that ur mom is just afraid that u might get lazy and not be so so so perfect and that's why she pushes so hard on you, unfortunately. I think that this is totally wrong from her side, but i guess this is how she thinks,,,not that she doesn;s love u or smthng else...<br />
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so i really wish u good luck, i wish that all this situation with settle and hope that u will get all u want (ur life!!!!!), if i were ur mom (i am very young now , just 26 :-)), i would be really proud of you :-)<br />
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Sorry, don't know what advice to give ya, but at least i know that it's good to talk it out so...take care :-)

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its not at all complicated. just simply be a deaf and dumb. don't say anything. keep your classes going on. and when u get admission proof her you are far more better than your cousin. first do it and then say it. be patient and calm. and don't get it on your nerves. enjoy this challenge. and proof yourself.<br />
All the best.

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Maybe it would help to move out. I was so unhappy living at home and I can't tell you how much of a relief it is not to be there anymore. I still visit but it is nothing like living there. Also, I would tell you mom exactly how you feel. Tell her to put herself in your shoes, that you want to have a social life & you want to be respected. Good Luck.

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Thank you so much. I've tried a lot of times to talk with he, but she doesn't listen me.<br />On September I will move out because I will go to college.<br />Thank you :)

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