Why people neglect one who loves them,expects them.?

Taking for granted happens all the time within a family. I guess we think we still have time to appreciate them, show that we care. We have them next to our side...we believe they will be here anyway...so we don't need to prove anything any more until something hits us and reminds us that we are all mortal. We don't appreciate what we have, we appreciate what we have lost...in many cases, not all, but many.

i think love cannot be selfish.. and when we love some one we expect that he/she loves us so.. so we should not expect more expectation always hurts.. we love some one its ok if he / she did not love u . its mean he / she losing or neglecting his/her own.. who loves her/him so much...

so be brave and do not stop love others.. u know.. may be there are many who loves u may be u also ignore those who exprect from u .. its circle.. do not take things on ur heart.. take them easy....

regards

I think for the most part we are all built differently and show are affections differently and love in different ways, where one person can be completely and fully passionate and show the other person unconditional love and caring, the other persons way of loving back may be totally different, only by a casual gesture here or there, but I do think their level of love is equal, but just not as apparent as us who wear our heart on our sleeves so to speak. I sure wish I could find someone who would "show" me their love and care...but maybe I do need somekind of counter balance to keep my feet on the ground for the most part. I know I try my hardest to not feel neglected, it hurts so much. Love and kisses to you!