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Why some guys just dont believe or get it when a women just is not intrested in them?

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Asked By: redllip23 26-30, F  10 months ago

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  1. NorthernStar1980 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by NorthernStar1980 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:48PM

    It's not that they don't get it....some of them refuse to accept rejection and will use everything in him to win her over!

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  2. MilkLover412 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MilkLover412 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:57PM

    Sometimes a woman sends conflicting signals, knowingly or otherwise. If you are truly not interested and never will be, tell him so. Be as honest and straight-forward as possible: "I'm not interested in you. Please stop asking me out" sends a pretty clear message. Continuing to flirt with him afterward, or inviting him out with you or your friends sends the opposite message.

    If he continues in his approach, be more assertive. Tell him to leave you alone or you will report him to the authorities (common employer, police, etc).

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  3. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 11th, 2012 at 12:16AM

    So if your rude and straight forward your a *****. you try to protect their ego and maintain a friendship your leading them on. What a crock NO MEAMS NO to all you stalkin bastards

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  4. MilkLover412 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by MilkLover412 Jul 11th, 2012 at 1:00AM

    Not at all. By telling it straight, you let him know that you're actually not interested. That's not bitchy; that's honest. Girls can be extremely hard to read. I had a friend once who said she wasn't interested, but hung out and asked me out to coffee, etc, leading me on for almost 2 years, asked if I'd like to go to her place for sex, then changed her mind in the next sentence and said that she'd only be doing it to get back at her ex, then went back and forth for a few more weeks until I told her I was done and refused to talk to her. That was bitchy; I'd have much preferred if she'd taken the straight-forward approach. I genuinely thought she was into me, but that she was playing hard to get, or was struggling with her feelings. Does that make me a stalking bastard?? I don't think it does.

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  5. lagatta - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by lagatta Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:14PM

    Because they hope to wear you down!!! My experience is first say no, then be more assertive and say I'm not attracted to you and then if that doesn't works say "f.u.c.k. o.f.f. and be as aggressive as possible. With some guys you just have to be really, really aggressive otherwise they think there may be a chance.

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  6. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:19PM

    lmao

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  7. EarthBear2784 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by EarthBear2784 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:07PM

    Majority of women dont know a good guy when they see them. Heres the cycle. A girl who may be your friend or that you are interested in gets to know the actual good man that you are. Decides she wants the guy thats the magazine model looking ahole. Thinks hes a good guy at first then a couple of weeks to a couple of months later they break up because she found the truth and is in tears crying to you because you are the guy friend that is there listening to her, sharing your shoulder for her to cry on, and letting her blow her nose on your shirt (you can always wash it its just a shirt) then she says she wishes all guys were like you (clue in on what you just said ladies hes right there listening to you as you speak) and ask her for a chance with you, but they say that your more like the big brother to them or your in the "friend zone" even though you spoke up about how you feel about them, then they decide they need a break from men and all of a sudden a few days to a couple of weeks later another hott magazine model jerk comes along and they go for him leaving us good men wondering why she wont get a clue that we are still there. Go ahead ladies challenge me on this one and proove me wrong with actual evidence and tell me youve never done that.

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  8. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:03PM

    Sadly your right most times. However if your intrested in a women dont hang around pretending to be her friend ehen you know you wnat more. be honest with yourself and her. At least then you wont be both resenting each other because you feel she should take notice of you when you havent spoken up. And she wont feel decieved finding out she dosent have the friend she thought she did you have been in essence giving something hoping to get something. So try to sound all innocent.

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  9. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 11:16PM

    Then you decide if your going to wait around and see if she changes her ming or find a women who WILL appreciate you for the man you are. When my guy friends try to flip the script and ask me out its not because they cant get someone else it's because they too dont want the ones who realy want them. Thats the real diffrence between you and the so called magazine type guy. He values his self. Not that he is right but if it will help you to see im happy. You sound like the type who deserves someone special.

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  10. TheWanderingSupertramp - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by TheWanderingSupertramp Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:42PM

    Same way women do I would think.

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  11. TaintedSoul - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by TaintedSoul Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:41PM

    They take it as a challenge.

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  12. redllip23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by redllip23 Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:50PM

    When a women says no repeatedly she usualy means it so the challenge is a waste of time for both not to mention annoying.

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  13. TaintedSoul - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by TaintedSoul Jul 10th, 2012 at 10:54PM

    I can't say why they do it, I don't i feel like a stalker when people say no.

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