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Why this is always happening to me?

dear friends am in a situation where i don't know what to do. my boy friend does not have a single second from his busy life to me. and as usual i am alone again

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Every man will make time for his woman if he's in love with her. I've got a busy life, so has my boyfriend - but we still make time for eachother no matter what.
Time together in a relationship is essential. It would do you no good to miss out on that time. Being as you're alone anyway.. you might aswel just leave him and find someone else. Or tell him.. if he isn't making time for you now. When will he make time for you?

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c8lorraine	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 2:16AM sometimes he's just not that into you ! Be interesting with hobbies and friends NOT waiting for him to be entertainment Rated: +3Vote for this!
woodinhouse	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 2:16AM quit feeling sorry for yourself, and find your happiness somewhere else he obviously is, weather it's work or pleasure your not his first priority, why make him yours? Rated: +2Vote for this!
silentvoices	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 2:17AM when we have bad days we think that why it always happens to me.. but thats not true.. we are not alone in this world.. there are people who are really suffering more than us.. just see around feel the difference.. .. and hope for the best things will be settle down but it shall take some time.. Best of luck. Rated: +2Vote for this!
mzkaylz	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 1:07AM Cause you don't fill in the breifly explain your question bit and no one ever knows what you're on about ;] Rated: +1Vote for this!
Tamerlane	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 1:33AM Ahhh good you added an explanation. If his reasons are legit it should not be worried about but look at it this way, at least you have a significant other :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
NowSure	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 3:33AM Get on with your life. If he decides he wants to join it again, then you might try to figure out if that's what you want. Dont sit around waiting for him to live. Rated: +1Vote for this!
void00	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 3:52AM What's the deal? Is he a workaholic or always out with his friends? You need to talk to him, if you can get him to listen. Rated: +1Vote for this!
angelnot	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 5:11AM depends on what his intentions are for working so much. if its to provide you with nice things. then try and compromise, and say you would prefer more time with him than nice things. but if its because hes a work alcholic using it as an excuse not to spend that much time with you or prioritising work over you or not willing to compromise with you. then i guess you have got to decide wether your happy to carry on with that life. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Annetted76	Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 8:33AM I went through something like this, just recently. I finally let him go, and like the old saying goes, if it loves you and it was yours to begin with, it will come back to you. If it doesn't, it was never yours. I am moving on, and if he is still interested, if I am available then, we will try again. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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