thanks for this. My boyfriend dumped me surprisingly last Saturday. But i help myself, I am now a strong soldier. you know S### happens. so what! i will keep going!
Makes me think of the question I answered earlier. Her bf was abusive but............... I love him so much. Sad how people just refuse to see.
Our psyche is not our friend. It would literally like to eat us alive. Some learn to get a grip on it and some don't. That's my short answer.
It takes time for the brain to accept and adjust to reality - sometimes it becomes self perpetuating, sending you into a tailspin....so you have to be self aware enough to break such cycles....not easy for everyone, impossible for some...
Somehow I don't think you are convinced...
Because sometimes the pain is the only way that you know that your alive
When you are completely numb any heartbeat is life
That is a great question. One to add is. If you do give yourself the drama and grief, why blame others? You could have avoided the whole issue in the first place. True?