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I understand that sometimes you can fall victim to unbearable circumstances , but why do it to yourself? Why give your self the drama and the grief . Why not avoid the danger zone ? A field full of land mines and you jump in then yell damsel in distress. You don't have to put your self in position and on top get upset when you get the crazy looks.....maybe you are, but don't ***** about it when you do it. Enlighten yourself , don't place your worth in other hands nobody can love you more then you need to love your self. Maybe its something that comes with age when you realize there is always a fighting chance and a one track mind gets you no where, maybe you don't know your doing it to your self. I didn't ...(see I'm not perfect) I allowed my self to become victimized once and once I realized I don't have to deal with this BS . Life suddenly became easier and my heart happier.
Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 9 Answers Apr 15 in Community

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thanks for this. My boyfriend dumped me surprisingly last Saturday. But i help myself, I am now a strong soldier. you know S### happens. so what! i will keep going!

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Makes me think of the question I answered earlier. Her bf was abusive but............... I love him so much. Sad how people just refuse to see.

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I was in a situation like that for ten years i though he would change ....it took me some time to see that wasn't going to happen and once i realized my worth ..... but once i grasped that i was allowing this i left ....more like ran away to a completely different state.

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It takes time for the brain to accept and adjust to reality - sometimes it becomes self perpetuating, sending you into a tailspin....so you have to be self aware enough to break such cycles....not easy for everyone, impossible for some...

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I see

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Somehow I don't think you are convinced...

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Because sometimes the pain is the only way that you know that your alive

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I wouldnt call that a life at all

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When you are completely numb any heartbeat is life

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you cant help what you feel but you can help your actions. If thats the life you choose then your stuck there with your one track mind

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Great question.

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That is a great question. One to add is. If you do give yourself the drama and grief, why blame others? You could have avoided the whole issue in the first place. True?

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V I know people like that always blaming others for their poor choices setting themselves up for failure.

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