You sound very judgemental. It seems as though you have listened to a bloke whine about his ex and take his views on as your own. Kids are messy regardless of how you groom them and single mums are not second class citizens. If you don't start forming your own opinions independently, he will treat you with the same contempt he treats the mother of his children.
?? What ?
Not all moms are like that.
I will admit to there being moms like that out there. And I agree that it is wrong. I get about 300 a month for my son and have enough to take care of him, get him what he needs and what he wants with everything left over.
Children don't appreciate manicures the way their mothers would. And they'd probably only whinge about the smell of highlights.
Is there a roof over the childrens head,is there food in their kitchen.are the lights on at their place?
If the answer to the above questions are Yes,
then childsupport is being used in the right way and
what she does with any other money is up to her..
so they can look good for the next idiot they meet and set up more child support from him !
My mum didn't.
I hear you loud and clear. My husband pays 800 HUNDRED DOLLARS A MONTH to his highschool gf for a daughter he has never seen. The family has 3 cars, atv's, etc. Part of that money should be out away for the girl when she graduates!
From yr lips to the courts ears!
Because child support has evolved into the biggest racket in the country. Even more than welfare and food stamps. No one regulates how the money is spent and the amount ordered is usually ridiculous.