Goox question, I personally love pleasing a woman this way. Fo me its a privelige to please a woman this way. I do thinkbhenryandmagibhave some.reallybgoodbpoints though..
Tell him of your need. If he's gone down on you before, then there's no difference on going down on you now.
I haven't a clue. When my wife was pregnant, and was having a similar problem as you, I went down on her regularly. It could be that he's afraid that might hurt you, too. I would just say, discuss the problem with him.
I am your exact opposite. <br />
I would love to go down on my wife, but she isn't in to it. And she doesn't like to go down on me. <br />
Oh, and we're not pregnant.
You need to tell him how his lack of attention makes you feel.
If he is working too much, you may need to agree - as a couple - to take responsibility for your own pleasure. Yes, this would mean no more bj's for him.
I know what I would do if I were him.