the guy is cheating..
I'm involved in something like this. I go to the gym with a guy that has a gf. He said he doesn't tell her because she would be jealous. But I kept at him and he finally admitted that he knew he was wrong for doing it because he wanted to figure me out to see if he would break it off with her. He was keeping his options open! LOL!
what an a**h*** LOL
well b/c he is a guy who lacks integrity.......move on
coz gals are just jealous insecure b*tches.
haven't you heard that friends are b*stards that can't keep a secret.. he is dead if his gf finds out.:D believe me, I speak from experience.
sounds like a cheat to me mate
Maybe because he did not want to share her. :) wink
It culd be many thins, culd be hes afraid his gf willvtake it badly or, he wants to keep his feelings towards her away from other ptying eyes,it may be that they have had sexual relations before and he dosnt want to be exposed or the girl really is hot for him and he wants to act on it in the nearest future.
hmm sounds like he is not really interested in his female friend sounds like he is hiding alot of things and when the two meet one day things could get ugly i wouldnt hide something like that at all
There may be absolultely nothing wrong going on. Except that he may be worried that his gf may have a fit of insecurity. The gf may be a person who is very possessive and may consider ANY female friends as competitors to his affection.
I have had 3 female friends in college who were REALLY good friends. We have shared a lot of laughter and tears over many years. Now they live in three different countries and I had the chance recently to meet them together in my hometown. I asked them to come over to my house because my wife could not stand the thought that I could "go out" with them that day. When they came, they were given the coldest possible reception by my wife and they all left kinda hurt. Our friendship hasn't been the same after that. It was two decades of innocent warmth down the drain. I brought this topic up with my wife a few weeks back and asked her why she behaved like that. She simply asked me to bring only male friends home so that she wouldn't have to feel jealous about some strange women "sharing her husband's affection."
Now you know. Please don't judge that guy.
i have to say that IMHO your wife should love & trust you enough not to "feel jealous about some strange women "sharing her husband's affection."
Come on: he doesn't want HER to find out about (small) her. His friends will leak HER in two seconds, then?
Maybe cause he is embarrass of u
pure booty call
He likes her and wants to see where it will go
It could be an innocent friendship BUT he is afraid his friends and partner will jump to the wrong conclusion.
Maybe he can't reveal the secret because it's a SECRET and you're not supposed to reveal it to the whole friend group?!
Why he didn't invite the friend over - 1)the house is a mess and he was embarassed; 2)his gf would be jealous and superstitious; 3)he just doesn't like guests or the friend