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Why would a guy keep a female friend secret from his friends and not tell his partner how much contact they had?

and my friend asked why he never invited her ova to his partners house when they lived near each other etc and he said he doesnt do that have friends come over for coffee

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17 Answers to "Why would a guy keep a female friend secret from his friends and not tell his partner how much contact they had?"

  1. Perksplayhot - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Perksplayhot Jan 23rd, 2013 at 3:10AM

    the guy is cheating..

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  2. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Reply by kikikay May 8th, 2013 at 3:36AM

    not with my friend she not going to be a option

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  3. medeedee - 31-35 years old

    Posted by medeedee Dec 15th, 2012 at 4:39PM

    I'm involved in something like this. I go to the gym with a guy that has a gf. He said he doesn't tell her because she would be jealous. But I kept at him and he finally admitted that he knew he was wrong for doing it because he wanted to figure me out to see if he would break it off with her. He was keeping his options open! LOL!

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  4. fallfloat - female

    Reply by fallfloat Mar 1st, 2013 at 9:37AM

    what an a**h*** LOL

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  5. ranaz - 41-45 years old

    Posted by ranaz Oct 30th, 2012 at 11:11PM

    well b/c he is a guy who lacks integrity.......move on

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  6. Takumii - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Takumii Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:24PM

    coz gals are just jealous insecure b*tches.

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  7. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Reply by kikikay Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:26PM

    but hes keeping her secret from his friends as well , so you reply doesnt explain why he keeps her secret from his male and female friends ?

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  8. Takumii - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Takumii Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:30PM

    haven't you heard that friends are b*stards that can't keep a secret.. he is dead if his gf finds out.:D believe me, I speak from experience.

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  9. ScotsSphynx - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by ScotsSphynx Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:22PM

    sounds like a cheat to me mate

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  10. Alasandra - 51-55 years old

    Posted by Alasandra Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:28PM

    Maybe because he did not want to share her. :) wink

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  11. honeysleekchic - 22-25 years old

    Posted by honeysleekchic Jan 24th, 2013 at 3:04AM

    It culd be many thins, culd be hes afraid his gf willvtake it badly or, he wants to keep his feelings towards her away from other ptying eyes,it may be that they have had sexual relations before and he dosnt want to be exposed or the girl really is hot for him and he wants to act on it in the nearest future.

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  12. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Reply by kikikay May 8th, 2013 at 3:38AM

    nope they were never involved and hes the one being secretive shes not she lets people know there friends

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  13. chigusa89 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by chigusa89 Nov 27th, 2012 at 3:15PM

    hmm sounds like he is not really interested in his female friend sounds like he is hiding alot of things and when the two meet one day things could get ugly i wouldnt hide something like that at all

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  14. jazzerin - 61-65 years old

    Posted by jazzerin Nov 21st, 2012 at 8:42PM

    Why would he just invite her ova?
    Why wouldn't he invite the entire person?

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  15. Rumss - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Rumss Nov 17th, 2012 at 3:23AM

    There may be absolultely nothing wrong going on. Except that he may be worried that his gf may have a fit of insecurity. The gf may be a person who is very possessive and may consider ANY female friends as competitors to his affection.

    I have had 3 female friends in college who were REALLY good friends. We have shared a lot of laughter and tears over many years. Now they live in three different countries and I had the chance recently to meet them together in my hometown. I asked them to come over to my house because my wife could not stand the thought that I could "go out" with them that day. When they came, they were given the coldest possible reception by my wife and they all left kinda hurt. Our friendship hasn't been the same after that. It was two decades of innocent warmth down the drain. I brought this topic up with my wife a few weeks back and asked her why she behaved like that. She simply asked me to bring only male friends home so that she wouldn't have to feel jealous about some strange women "sharing her husband's affection."

    Now you know. Please don't judge that guy.

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  16. StefanDB - male

    Reply by StefanDB Mar 4th, 2013 at 12:00AM

    i have to say that IMHO your wife should love & trust you enough not to "feel jealous about some strange women "sharing her husband's affection."

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  17. geeKnee - 22-25 years old

    Posted by geeKnee Feb 4th, 2013 at 7:32PM

    Come on: he doesn't want HER to find out about (small) her. His friends will leak HER in two seconds, then?

    That's why.

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  18. bigtreez626 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bigtreez626 Jan 31st, 2013 at 10:44PM

    Maybe cause he is embarrass of u

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  19. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by crazychica369 Jan 31st, 2013 at 10:23PM

    Booty call clearly guys always keep that on the DL.

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  20. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Reply by kikikay Feb 11th, 2013 at 1:26AM

    nope its not physical

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  21. StefanDB - male

    Reply by StefanDB Mar 4th, 2013 at 12:01AM

    says who?

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  22. Totherescue - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Totherescue Jan 14th, 2013 at 10:22AM

    pure booty call

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  23. Poetforit - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Poetforit Dec 6th, 2012 at 12:35PM

    He likes her and wants to see where it will go

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  24. Ste11aeres - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Ste11aeres Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:56PM

    It could be an innocent friendship BUT he is afraid his friends and partner will jump to the wrong conclusion.

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  25. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Reply by kikikay May 8th, 2013 at 3:39AM

    hes had no problem with his old partner and friends knowing about his other female friends why just keep her secret

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  26. appetitefd - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by appetitefd Jun 22nd, 2012 at 12:59PM

    Maybe he can't reveal the secret because it's a SECRET and you're not supposed to reveal it to the whole friend group?!
    Why he didn't invite the friend over - 1)the house is a mess and he was embarassed; 2)his gf would be jealous and superstitious; 3)he just doesn't like guests or the friend

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