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Why would any woman share her husband with other women? i'm sorry i just don't understand this?

there are millions of men in this world ...why on earth would any woman need to share a man ...this sister wivies stuff is for the birds ..any woman letting a man use you this way is nuts..the only one enjoying this kind of thing is the man

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  1. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    Beats me. I think there are just as many men who want to share their wives....and watch.
    The whole thing is a bit bizarre to me, but then I'm a monogamous type. Apparently, lots of people aren't. Males and females. It's not something I can begin to understand.

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  2. LunarFireFly - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by LunarFireFly Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    Low self-esteem.

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  3. ladyryan - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by ladyryan Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:50PM

    Well said.

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  4. Nightnoice - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Nightnoice Dec 27th, 2012 at 4:57PM

    You must have a high level of confidence to allow another woman to share your man. If you had low self-esteem you would never let a woman near your man.

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  5. MrBrownstone - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by MrBrownstone Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:16PM

    I prefer that my woman does not share me.

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  6. banjdm333 - 13-15 years old - female

    Reply by banjdm333 Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:17PM

    wait is it your girl who is doing it

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  7. MrBrownstone - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by MrBrownstone Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    no

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  8. badkittycat88 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by badkittycat88 Feb 8th, 2012 at 10:41PM

    I don't know about the sister wives thing, but I do love to watch my husband with another woman sexually or to see him flirting with one. I love seeing how happy and excited he gets to touch another beautiful woman. ^_^

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  9. ladyryan - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by ladyryan Feb 4th, 2012 at 7:01PM

    The swingers/swappings, I really can't understand myself. If it's love to be the motivation behind the mutual act, then I would say, I should have shared my husband. But it wasn't the case. I love him and I don't to share him. If it's purely for sexual adoration, then this could to endless even to worst. No longer will modesty rule marriage betweeen married couples. We are all taken to bargain.

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  10. KawaiiDoll - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by KawaiiDoll Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:24PM

    Don't ask me.
    It's disgusting.

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  11. aaaaarrrgggh - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by aaaaarrrgggh Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:20PM

    Bleh. Too stupid to realize that condoms don't protect against STDs. You know, HPV. Herpes. The other reasons disgust me just as much.

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  12. 151rby - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by 151rby Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    It's like people who have horses; they sometimes have others ride them to keep them in shape.

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  13. maninmotion - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by maninmotion Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:38PM

    Ha ha ha! I knew there had to be a logical answer out of the bunch.

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  14. MasterOfStudies - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by MasterOfStudies Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:17PM

    I'm sorry, but I'm too selfish to share my husband. He's MINE.

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  15. TarzanNeedsJane - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by TarzanNeedsJane Mar 30th, 2013 at 8:18AM

    me either doesnt make sense

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  16. Effinyaay - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Effinyaay Feb 15th, 2013 at 8:48PM

    It's not for everyone but there are some people who enjoy it and get very turned on by it. I have shared before and I find it very exciting. It's not only a benefit for the man, I enjoy it and encourage it. I love watching and helping them.

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  17. mirways - 22-25 years old

    Posted by mirways Dec 7th, 2012 at 3:03PM

    wel this i think women would not want to share their husband with any other women as i.e say the man marry twice or 3 timz buh lets c it through logic now there are a quater more of female population than male if every man marry one woman in this world still dere will be billions of women without husband what do you want them to do go for prostitution or what what if one of them is your sister i think if a person can do justice in between the two female or three then it is ok my personal point of view regarding the statistic.

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  18. CelestralCreature - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by CelestralCreature Apr 3rd, 2012 at 3:35PM

    I dont share when i care

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  19. SecretBrokenDoll - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by SecretBrokenDoll Feb 5th, 2012 at 8:42AM

    There's a difference between swinging and polygamy. One is something a couple agrees to because they find it attractive and brings them closer together. Polygamy is a religious type thing, (not condoned by the Mormon church btw), where the parties involved believe it's important to have multiple wives and children; just as other religions might view baptism or confessions of sins.

    I personally couldn't do the spousal sharing thing. But I don't really judge others who do. Whatever floats your boat. And I don't have a problem with Polygamy so long as you're not molesting and "pretend marrying" 14 year old girls in Little House on the Prairie outfits.

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  20. jfrancois93 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jfrancois93 Feb 5th, 2012 at 12:12AM

    I think it is pure lust.

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  21. 2Leadindeed - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by 2Leadindeed Feb 4th, 2012 at 8:08PM

    I’m not a woman so I can’t answer that from a woman’s perspective. What someone should be asking is why a married man would go along with being shared in the first place? I mean does he consider his wife as an equal with the same rights as him to feel secure that the one she shared everything with is exclusive to her and no one else, or does he think there are exceptions? It’s what I see in the polygamist marriages. Those men would have to believe its ok to consider themselves superior to women not unlike dictators consider their race superior to another. Otherwise how could they justify using another human being like that? I’m really not trying to be all moral and righteous or anything here. It’s just I think if there isn’t something else going on to make sharing a spouse at least acceptable in the mind of both the husband and wife, it aint going to happen without repercussions. As far as I can tell those men in polygamist marriages are nothing more than control freaks justifying their actions with a warped interpretation of the Bible. For others that think sharing of a husband can work, I just ask the question, how the hell could he ever think what one woman said was even close to an honest compliment when she could very well be trying to be on her best behavior to one up the other woman. The entire deal reeks of dishonesty to me, on both sides of the marriage. I guess one way to look at it is, why go through the motions of getting married to one person if you think it’s ok to bring others into the relationship? Unless the only thing that matters is sex and you’re able to forget about everything else. Good luck with that!!

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  22. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Posted by jeanemae Feb 4th, 2012 at 7:06PM

    Well, why anyone would want that guy on sisterwives I don't know, but there are lots of reasons a person might not mind sharing their husband. In the case where the person just has s8x with other people, lots of people don't think that that means they don't still love their spouse. As far as having multiple wives, i think sometimes the women like the other women or sharing the household labor. As long as there's no coercion...I don't see a problem with it. People have done it for thousands of years so there probably is a certain percentage of the population who likes those sort of relationships.

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  23. myah06 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by myah06 Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:31PM

    Another women to help out with the kids and chores would be lovely......as for sharing my man......I would NOT be willing.

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  24. TheRealSteve - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by TheRealSteve Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:20PM

    Because she'd rather share him that not have him at all. I've heard plenty of stories about couples where one of them isn't able to have sex for example and it's unfair to deny the other one sex forever and expect them to stay so they tell them to go and find another partner rather than lose them altogether.

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  25. aaaaarrrgggh - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by aaaaarrrgggh Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:19PM

    dislike, purely because it's true. bleh

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  26. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Feb 4th, 2012 at 6:17PM

    More of a swinger/comvenience marriage

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