Is it really a 'rather'? Or does he jus wanna do both?
Why not join him?
Wait ... is that him in your avatar?
We are going to need to know a lot more about sex with you to make that decision.
Please be specific:
What do you look like?
Sizes (of everything)?
Acts you will do?
Acts you won't do?
Length of sessions?
Once we get this data, we can help you. We are the experts at this.
Actually really funny
maybe he just wants to last longer.. it's no big deal anyway..
He maybe more comfortable with his hand that with your ...... Talk to him. He must have his reason.
Have you asked him why? It isn't rocket science, it's ******* sex. Tell him you feel left out and want to mutually **********, go oral on each other, work on getting him into the realm that having both of you enjoying yourselves is great. It could be he is gay or just scared of not pleasuring you. Ask and let him know how you feel.
Do you have a butter face.
Silly answer - He's very attached to his hand... they've been together a very long time. His hand is low maintenance, it never says "Not tonite, I have a headache." and it doesn't want to talk afterward.
Serious answer - There is something very self-affirming about ************. It's an act that is all about oneself, and nobody else. One doesn't have to figure out what the other persons mood is, or what they need or want. It's a way to relieve pressure without the complications of involving another person. I doubt that your boyfriend would rather ********** all the time than have sex with you... but I think those women who want to suppress their men who want to do this act are damaging their own relationships by so doing. Surprisingly, it has nothing to do with you, ladies. It doesn't mean he's not attracted to you, it just means he likes himself too.
A man's point of view, very interesting.
Good question. I would like to know what he is thinking of, watching while he masturbates. Maybe he has some secret fantasy that he is really locked into right now. Or it is just easier for him to get off.
what ya look like i mean if you look like Orca welllllll