Maybe Daddy's paying for it.
Debt, debt and more debt. The nations love it because it helps keep the banking industry going. Whilst, at the same time, a person can save and get a meager 2.5% Interest on their Investments; it's shameful.<br />
I learned a long time ago that debt is not too unlike a lead ballon that drags everyone down in the end. If I can't afford it I don't have it; that's where I am. To spend such an amount and spend 'X' number of years paying back the cash will never warrant such a debt that you mention here.<br />
(My personal opinion, of course)<br />
In some cultures the parents pay for the wedding....other than that....different people have different priorities.
Somebody else must be paying for the wedding.