Because I want to be surprised. And it doesn't matter all that much. But to learn what it is in all the heightened emotions of moment after birth, that must be something special.
I'm not the father!!!!!!
I know a few religious people who consider it "bad luck" to know that in advance. They also don't make preparations like buying clothes or preparing a nursery until right before the birth. I guess they want it all to be some great mystic surprise.
because it doesnt matter
to be surprised.
You want a surprise, and without knowing you can still have hope for the one that you secretly want.
some people still like to be surprised..