Wife cheated on me 6 times still with her am I a fool or just that in love with her?

Wow, six times!! I cant judge the situatiom you are in, maybe low self esteem has got a lot to do with it. ( on both your parts) Does she tell you she still loves you?
Maybe she feels neglected on her part, who knows. Maybe if you really love her you should seek some sort of councelling together. It could be worth a try.
I imagine you are feeling pretty unsure about what is going on and I wish I could cast my magic wand over you and make it all right. Hang in there, jo

Not to judge, but ya, you're a fool. Now that she knows that you will stay, she can sleep with whoever she wants to. Sure, she will stay and use you, but she will also stay and use her boyfriends as well. By staying, you have given her permission, because why should she stop when she can have her cake and eat it to? Honestly, she is worse then a prostitute because these men mean something to her. You may love her, but that obviously is just not enough, and if your love isn't enough now, then it will never be. I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I wish you all the best.

I am under the belief that a person who is abused, and cheated on, really confuse "love" with other things....

Maybe you need to be her savior.....She needs fixing, and you are just the guy to do it...

Maybe you can't let go of all the "used to be's" even though they are long gone....

Maybe you are competitive, and you just aren't going to let another guy win....

What you should be asking is why you don't feel you deserve better than to be lied to and cheated on over and over and over.....

She has done it so many times, that she is comfortable with the fact that she can have her cake and eat it too...without any consequences....

People only treat us poorly if we allow it....She should have been set straight the first time.....or you walk....

I don't think there's any hope after 6 times....sorry to say....it's become a way of life for her, and you too, apparently.

yes your a stupid fool.

as a man don't you think you deserve better than to put up with that bullshit.

It sounds like you know all about her cheating, did she tell you? do you like the idea? does she come home and **** you with another man's ***** still inside her? do you enjoy her giving you all the details of her outside activities? you don't sound too angry about the situation, so i assume you are comfotable with it. Enjoy!

Does she loves you? If she cheated you 6 times, she probably will do it again and again, unless you will not find out why she does it. My husband cheated me at the beginning of our relationship, but now we are together about 15 years and he doesn't cheat me anymore. Sometimes it is necessary to have a peasance and just forgive.

Sorry about that. I believe you are neither a fool nor that much in love with her, or you wouldn't have asked the question.

Sometimes there are more at stakes, like maybe you are used to having her around, or maybe you don't want others to see you as a failure, ...

Whatever you decide to do I wish you luck.

you have a very strong love

Maybe you just want an "open marriage"?

I think your a little of both to be honest. you have to be in love to stay but you are also foolish for staying. 6 times is a hell of a lot. she doesnt seem sincerely remorseful and she doesnt seem like she will change, why should she, if she knows with you, anything goes. you have to decide if that type of treatment is good enough for you. if you have come to the realization that that is just who she is and that is all you will allow yourself to have in your life, then stay, but if you want more and better, you would be a fool not to leave. the only change that is going to be done in this situation is going to come from your side of the table. sorry hun, its a real ****** up situation to be in.

Hmmmm....Mountain raises an intersting point...and a name like "alwaysshare" does suggest certain things are ok with you...Six times is a lot....chronic....and, from what I have read, men are most bothered by sexual infidelity...so, if you haven't left already, something is keeping you there...perhaps you should examine your definitions of love and foolishness...some things work out just fine in some marriages....perhaps yours is that way...SS

It depends on how you feel about her cheating on you. My instinct tells me that you are hurt by it, and that you stay with her because you are afraid of not being with her, for what ever reason. Maybe you don't think you'll find someone else to love you, or maybe you are just afraid of life without her. It really depends on you. I don't want to assume too much, but this doesn't sound like a good situation for you.

DEPENDENT ON HER IS MORE LIKE IT IT SEEMS. I COULD BE WRONG BUT U DON'T SEEM TO LOVE URSELF VERY MUCH OR U WOULDN'T PUT UP WITH SOMEONE HURTING U LIKE THAT REPEATEDLY SO U CAN'T LOVE HER YET. I THINK COUNSELING WOULD HELP U BOTH. IF SHE'S GONNA CONTINUE TO F AROUND OUTSIDE OF THE MARRIAGE THEN WHAT WAS THE POINT OF GETTING MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE? GOOD LUCK TO U!

Each time you forgive her, it is good enough reason for her to do it again. And each time she does it your confidence takes a nosedive and you feel this is all you are worth. Because your confidence is low you feel she is the only one who can love you and so you think you love her too. Believe me you dont. Have can you love someone who doesn't respect your feelings?

I'm not gonna beat around the bush: you're a fool.

And she's a *****. Dump her.

Your not a fool for loving her your a fool for staying with her

Well, if you prefer watching to being with her, maybe. Otherwise, love is blind and so are you. No, you're a fool. Relationships are built on trust. Once, maybe you can work it out, 6 times she's renting out her body and you're paying the price. Change the locks on the door before she gets home, agree to meet at a lawyer's office and return her clothing to her. More than that you can decide. Don't be a door mat! No one likes a man that has no testicles. She put your's in the fridge long ago.

Because you love her she knows that you wont leave her so cheating for her for the 7th time wont be a hard thing..