Marriage counseling.<br />
Edit: My wife wanted things to work but she refused counseling as well. I eventually left, there seemed to be no other choice.
ask her to put her "money where her mouth is." Then be ob<x>jective and LOOK for the good she actually does.
Sounds like she just wants things to go away. That's too easy and a hugh mistake. Deniel isn't going to help you or her. Clearly things are worse.
Have you tried therapy? <br />
if you have kids you should try and work it out if not mybe you guys can civaly split<br />
tell her you cant be the only one who is putting in any effort<br />
ohh well if she isnt trying then its her own fault. give her an altimadum,counciling or seperation if she really wants it she will go, if she doesnt you guys need to try a seperation. you have to live your life you cant wait around forever! <br />
She says she wants to but is not doing anything, well if this was me I'd ask her WHAT does she want?<br />
You need to get it all on the table, the kids would be feeling your frustration and the atmosphere in home must be depressing.... she's got to come clean with her reasons.
Please show your wife some more loving , she cant show you because she may feel rejected. I know I have in the past, usually when it happens its when I need it the most, so I can relate that it may be what is happening here to her. Show her and see what changes and please , please leave the topic alone until you find the day where both of your minds are clear enough to discuss the topic. Living in different rooms is a deal breaker , you didn't marry to sleep in separate beds, no matter how hard things are, Intimacy can bring you to a peak point of getting closer. Until you and her can talk things thru. And if that doesn't work, then try stepping out for a few days. relationships take a lot of work, but they should also be fun. Specially with someone you care for. Hope it helps
If the right thing to do is that easy she would be doing her part, I think you feel like saying no it won't. <br />
Put a professional between the two of you and maybe you work at meeting somewhere in the middle.<br />
You have to align your values in relationship and hope you still see eye to eye. good luck.
Not sure what your issues are: Infedelity would pretty much ruin a relationship especially with trust. But if it is something that needs a marriage counselor I do believe in trying to work things out. Never forget why you feel in love in the first place. Relationships take a lot of effort, kindness, compromise. Lots of Give and a little take.
that doesn't make any sense. "said it the right thing to do" doesn't make sense.<br />
i don't know. ask. i'm sure there are many options out there. see what settles well.