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Will he forgive me?

My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months, it was a great connection - wonderful in every aspect from the beginning. He has recently asked for a "break" and has left....why.....on two occasions while out with him on the town I became jealous and he really did not like that. I don't really know where these feelings came from, possibly I liked him greatly and was afraid to lose him? I felt immediate remorse for my jealously and I apologized immediately after the second occasion, also saying I felt ridiculous for my behavior. Shortly after that, he asked for the break/separation and does not appear to want to come back to me. It seems that my jealousy those nights really gave him a negative impression that he cannot seem to get over. I feel terrible, and I am so very sorry for how I acted. I am normally so nice, sweet, unassuming - I don't know what got into me! If I am not with him now, I especially don't know how to get him to come back and realize I can "edit" that behavior in the future. Help! I love him.
Posted 4 months ago
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If you love him you want him to be happy right? Even if that means not being with you? If you try and force it you'll risk pushing him further away.. Just give him a little time.. If he loves you, he'll realize that he only wants you.. And if he really loves you, I'm sure he wouldn't want you to 'edit' any part of yourself.. Of course, if he really loved you, there'd be no need for you to be jealous.. You need someone that cares for you as much as you care about them.. It sounds like you've given him a little too much power over you.. Anyway, good luck..
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 11:52AM
Give him time to miss you..call later on .Your drama sent him running and contacting him too soon will make you seem worse.You may have to move ahead and learn a sad life lesson. Give him time.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 4:56AM
well if he is brave.. because i think only brave people can forgive...
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 5:47AM
If u love him and care about what he feels let him go, but if u cant handle it sit down to a prctical conversation with him if you can over e-mail, text or even better in person, explain 2 him what u feel and let ur emotions run free, trust him, then tell him y u feel jealous or what u think makes u feel jealous simply explain that ur afraid of losing him not because u have negative emotions because he owns a special place in ur heart and that it hurts u 2 say goodbye but b careful so as he doesnt think ur clingy if he's truly that one special man he'll appreciate ur attempt and he'll forgive u if not ur better off without him and just hang with ur friends and live life like u did b4 him.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 3:41PM
You need to back off for awhile. You know how you say you felt ridiculous with the way you acted with your jealousy? If you keep calling him and texting him and acting like a jerk then you can pretty much know that behavior is very unattractive as well and then just say good-bye! If you go away, and he realizes he misses you (like he probably will if the connection is what you say it is) he will call you. He can't miss you if you won't go away! Untill then go date! You live and you learn sweetie and with the next guy you will know better than to of acted that way in the first place.
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