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im 30 been single for a long time(since I was 17)ive only had sex with 2 women and that was years apart I have no kids.im afraid that im going to be alone until I die (by my own hand)nobody wants me and I don't know why.im not hideous(im not the best looking guy in the world,but im not hideous)im a good person.I just don't get it, im thinking about ending my life.A life lived alone is not worth living.im not sure how much more I can take.ive pointed a gun at my head twice I just don't have the guts to pull that trigger....yet.i have no joy in my life I dread waking up every morning to start another miserable lonely day.If God was truly merciful he would send a lightning bolt my way.i have 2 family members but they don't give a crap about me my mom died last year my "dad" has never been in my life,my parents divorced when I was 2 dad wouldn't pay child support,bye bye "dad"I just want to be loved or to die.im 30 at this point I don't see me making it to 31-my life sucks
rboyd86831234 rboyd86831234 26-30, M 8 Answers Mar 15 in Dating & Relationships

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stop to perpetuate yourself on the notion that you are sad because you are single is something of a standard set by society, there are many things that schools do not teach us. My Friend i invite you to slow down take a deep breath into your bolls and look inward to once again reach a place of love inside yourself. <br />
Start by trying to rememeber a time when you were happy and you felt no pressure to find someone to call your significant other. Like when you were a kid and really all you wanted was to be something else like an astronaut or firefighter whatever it was. Now think whether or not you were depressing yourself with notions of dieing alone because you do not have a girlfriend. i promise you if you reconnect with yourself on a deep and meaningful level eventually someone deep and meaningful will show up in your life. Rememeber that love attracts love, when you can feel love for yourself and then love more than just yourself it will transform your life. <br />
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it will not be easy, you will need to be resourceful in find things that will help you create a better you.<br />
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be in the now- what is and not what should be<br />
if you are stuck on what should be you are somewhat trapped in the past.

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Excellent advice that can change your whole outlook on life for the better if your willing to put in the effort to look at things from a better perspective. until you feel happy with yourself its pointless searching for someone to share your life with so work on you and your thinking first. things can change its always a possibility if your alive so get rid of the gun because death removes all posibility of change or happiness and thats illogical. try to learn about positive thinking and not getting caught up in what you dont have but instead look at what you do have. all this will help you feel more positive and gradually you feel better about your life. this attracts people to you more as well and you must try to forget about the past because it cant be changed and is the number 1 reason so many people get depressed and its pointless.

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I wouldn't advise to die but personally i don't see why loads of people want everyone to be alive<br />
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But anyway try making friends and seeing people that way. I'm feeling bit better then a few years back because I made a great friend even though I fancie her and I know I'm never going to get a girlfriend<br />
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I had this art teacher, he's a great guy. He was single but he was a great teacher and he made loads a friends. He was happy. <br />
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By hideous what do you mean what style are you into and what style do you have

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e-harmony should help you out, just dont mention the whole suicide thing and you should do well. or if you are into god you can try christian mingle.

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Hi<br />
Lol Be careful you may get what you wish for. <br />
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Sometimes life alone is better than being with the wrong person your only young heaps of life in front of you<br />
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Use this time to establish yourself both mentally and physically. Nobody wants a sad sack people are looking for people who have something going for them.<br />
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If you show the world your out there then the world will be there for you.<br />
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Lol as one poster has already said you will never die alone<br />
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But seriously even if you have a partner they could die when your older and you will still be left alone with memories. You may never be blessed with a family ( I use the term loosely)<br />
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Family well I have had more in my life from strangers then family your not the only one without a blood family support I was kicked out of a kids home at fifteen and had to make my own way.<br />
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He travels fastest who travels alone use this time to build up a good portfolio for yourself save invest reach for a good life style all this harder to achieve with somebody else in tow.<br />
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Also bear in mind sex and relationships do not constitute being loved <br />
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If in your path it will come I do not suggest dating sites etc because you could be meeting wrong types of people also you never find something when your looking for it.<br />
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Stop looking cut your cloth to your pattern and start enjoying life<br />
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Technically no. 1.8 other people will die the exact second you do. And 4.17 will be born in that same second that you die.

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Try dating sites? Sorry you feel that way. I believe there are women out there around your age that feel the same and are waiting to find a man like you. Good luck and get out there!

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You are far too young to assume your life will be lived alone. Wait and see :)

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