Will my pregnant girlfriend forget about me, She has went back to her husband?

My girl separated from her first love to be with me. She went back and forth for several months. Jealousy of the other dating another girl her motive. Her husband threatens her with child custody of their three year old. She says "SHE'S IN LOVE WITH ME" and "LOVES HIM" She admits we have a connection but she can't be by herself for a second. He has raped her, choked her, and spanked their girl hard enough to leave marks. I lost my job for her and she is pregnant with my child. Will she ever see who is the better man and come back to me. So we can raise our child together. In six months she will have a baby. Will I be apart of ther life. Should I wait or go on with my life. The child is mine! I know this for a fact. She does not have sex with him. I know it makes him made. She keeps wanting closure sex

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midlifemadness	Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 9:11AM She doesn't know what she wants! She is one very confused women!! If her husband is abusing her and her child she needs to immediately call child protective services or you call!! The most important issue here is the CHILD!! Forget about whether she is "in love" with you and just "loves" her husband, which, should I point out the key word here..."HUSBAND" But that's beside the point, the child needs help if he is indeed abusing her. Don't let that child suffer! Someone needs to help! If she won't then you should!!! Next, have a test done to see if the baby is yours, if it is, Step Up and take care of the baby and make sure this child does not suffer like the other one is. Why do people act so irresponsible when they have children? Rated: +3Vote for this!
Gemini15	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 11:49AM I think you should go after her...a husband who does all that to his wife shouldn't even be allowed near women. I think if he tries to get custody of the kid you should get him for abuse. The worst thing I'd say you can do is let this go and let her live with this lunatic and let him have your child and beat it to a pulp. Take him down bro, don't let this clown think he's won for a second. Rated: +2Vote for this!
loyaldude	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 2:06PM Dude you are in a triangle and no matter which point you go to will never be right. So go on with your life because your GF is all mixed up. It has nothing to do with you or her husband being the better man. She is the common denominator and she needs to understand not to pit the two guys in her life against each other. Walk away. Rated: +2Vote for this!
eventually	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 11:14PM Unfortunately, some people are victims and will remain so until they find the strength to gather their own self worth. I think you should make sure the baby is yours, and have a relationship with that child, but other than that I think you must accept that if the lady was sensible, she would have left her husband and stayed with you, and as she hasn't you mustn't waste your life waiting for her. Good luck, i hope you find some resolve. Rated: +2Vote for this!
cbm1	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:20PM I'm telling you to get the hell out of dodge .. Are you crazy?/ You've allowed a woman that isn't even emotionally stable and is still in denial of the abuse that this man does or supposedly does.. and I agree I very much doubt that she even knows who's child this maybe...I would suggest you seperate yourself from this crazy obis and get your **** together.. You've lost your job and I'm sure there is more to this story than what you've said so far.. This has choas written all over it.. why would you want this in your life.. are you all about self-destruction... what is so lacking in your life that you are willing to except this ?what has your family said or do they know the extent? Rated: +1Vote for this!
badbane	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:22PM You can't make someone fall in love with you. You obviously know people around her. My wife went through what you are going through now. THe only way you are going to get her out is if you can make her not be afraid of him anymore. You need to do an intervention also you need to find out whose baby it is. You need to tell her how you feel about her, him , and what this situation is doing to you. If she really cares enough she will do what she has to to be with you. You have to be willing to follow through with what you say. I hope that you figure this out. I know what you are going through 100%. My wiffe just figured it out for herself and we have a good home/ family. Good luck I hope you can find some happiness. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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