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KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 20 Answers Feb 10, 2013 in Health

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It will once you find somebody to love.

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I've been dreaming of that day since I was very young.

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Well, if you dream about it, then it's bound to happen. Don't give up just yet! =)

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Possibly, we can only have faith I suppose.

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Even so, faith is a very strong thing; it's a mental state. If you continue to have it, then your chances of overcoming the problem are very high.

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Your 17 how old were you when you started dreaming for someone to love?

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You can determine for yourself what faith can do for you. Just remember: Think you can, or think you can't, either way you're right.

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Many years, could be anywhere from 5-10 years... And I mean dreaming on the literal terms, I literally would dream that I fell in love.

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Well, since you've been dreaming long enough to not remember, than you know it's what you truly want. Now you just have to go out there and look for who you're dreaming about! =)

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Low self esteem hurts that quite a bit. I'm searching, sort of...

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Sort of? :/

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I'm not actually confident enough to talk to, well anyone.

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No it wont Ive been dealing with this for years now also.

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I agree with Eemalee.

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YES. Go out and do something productive with your time and socialize.

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Socialize with who? I don't have any friends...

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Love is the cure,<br />
for your pain will keep giving birth to more pain<br />
until your eyes constantly exhale love as effortlessly as your body yields its scent.

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Finding love is basically like looking for a needle in a haystack. My poor social skills and social anxiety prevent me from being able to even talk to people

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Only if you truly want it to and do something about it.

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Yes, but it requires work. Feelings of worthlessness should always be challenged by logic...maybe you are painting too black a picture. Loneliness can only be tackled by meeting people...it's tough but there are techniques you can learn.<br />
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I don't recommend professional therapy if you have to pay for it yourself, but there are books that can help you. Get some good stuff from the Psychology section, no Self Help bullshit.

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It's hard to make friends

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Only if you will it sweetheart.

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Its not that simple

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No its not, but isnt it worth the struggle?

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I'm not sure, I've been in this struggle since I was 11 years old... I just want it to be over so I can be happy again.

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Hate to say it but your still insanely young (as am I) but at your age I was more alone and depressed than most people. Then things all of a sudden fell into place and next thing I knew I had a purpose, matured a little more and slowly grew out of that soppy self worthlessness attitude. It will for you too! Dont be so pessimistic!!

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Sorry, hard not to be pessimistic these days.

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Eh tommorows another day.

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For some, tomorrow is just today on repeat.

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I didnt know you were psychic :)

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Everyday is exactly the same, because I repeat the same routine.

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You can repeat a routine but whos to say the little things around you wont change? That alone can affect the outcome of the day.

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I wait for the day of change, the day when something happens.

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See theres something to look forward to. ^^

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Yes. The next few years are a helluva ride. Get ready.

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A good ride, or bad?

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Keep your eyes wide open, and you can determine that for yourself. For most people, it's good. Just avoid the pitfalls. Common sense will help you with that. Best of luck.

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Get a Teddy Bear and hug when you feel alone......works wonders for lonely hours.

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I'm a bit too mature for something like that too work. (aka I've tried it)

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I still hug mine and I'm older than you.

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it will only if you want it to..it is something you control

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If only it were.

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it is...it really is that simple

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Maybe for you, but I social anxiety. Just talking to people is tasking

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I never said it involved talking to people...meditate and get to know who you are, first

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I've tried to meditate before, I can't still for it to work. I know very well who I am, sadly.

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are you in professional therapy?

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No, I don't want my family to become aware of my situation...

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I would highly suggest you do...for one thing why have a family if they are not involved in your situation?

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I'm scared I guess, I've been through so much with my health that I want everyone to think I'm strong... Not some helpless little kid who can't even make friends.

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don't let your ego get in your way...most of the time we are our worst enemy

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I am aware that I am my worst enemy, it's hard to explain but I just need to be strong... For myself and for others, I try to fight my demons when nobody is looking.

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well that is a choice...a choice you control

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Its not a choice, its a mindset that I cannot change, no matter how much I wish I could.

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Well you control your mind...I gave you a bunch of suggestion...do them, don't do them, that is your choice

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There are some things in your mind that you cannot change.

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I agree, but that is not the case here...you are making a choice to talk to your parents or not

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You're wrong, I really wish you would understand... I've tried very hard but there is something like a wall in my mind that prevents me, the words are on the tip of my tongue but nothing comes out.

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your right because I'm not there, so I can only offer recommendations....think about what I said though...hugs!

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Well just matters do you have friends and family?

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Just family

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Hmm tried to make any friends?

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Yes, I'm terrible when it comes to talking with people, I'm very awkward.

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Find clubs/ stuff in that nature that connect people to a similar interest.
And get out of your turtle shell from time to time. Say hi to some random folks.

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I've done that, and I am apart of a group, but still nothing.

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whats the group?

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I play trading card games (Yugioh and Cardfight vanguard), the people there are more so acquaintances than actual friends since I don't even talk to them outside organized events.

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Looks like you need to do more than Yugottago cards, you ever tried sports?

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Due to health reasons I can't play sports.

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hmmm the more you box your-self up the the more the cycle will continue.
Well it doesn't have to be just sports just something that evokes teamwork. Yugottago is 1 on 1 most of the time.
Hmmmm

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I suppose, but my health limits me greatly...

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Maybe I search for something. I'm going to sleep though I guess I'll message you tomorrow if I find something.

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I appreciate your help, but I'm not sure you would be able to find anything that I haven't already thought of or tried, I've been trying to dig myself out of this hole for over 5 years now.

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Well the first things I remember in my school we're robotics club, the chess team, student console, and hell maybe just plain ol volunteering.
And of course I'm happy to help. would of sent you a message but your pages blocks me.

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They tend not to..at least for me.

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It will. Hang on.

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To what?

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To you. It's you that makes life better.

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I'm not a fan of myself.

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it will come and it will go but it will never stay...

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Well, it hasn't left in a long time.

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