I aspire to be loved and understood as a person, not simply as a female. I'm a person first, female second. Oscar Wilde didn't really love or understand women as far as I can tell from his writing. <br />
But anyway... :)
Yes, thank you so much, I agree :)
I always prefer to return on our commonality as humans rather than focus exclusively on gender based divides.
Thanks, I think I can see what you're saying. And clearly you're much more familiar with Oscar Wilde's attitude towards women than I am. From what you say he was wiser than I would have initially judged. The distinction between love and understanding is an interesting one.
Nice to hear :) I think things can be misinterpreted quickly in today's climate of sharp gender divides. Who indeed is poor, being loved? Nice quote :)
If we are to meet our minds, not just gonads, understanding is essential.
it would require an effort?
Soo True. Yet why do more women not understand this too? Because I think we are not meant to understand. That would take all the excitement out of it.<br />
Kind of like knowing what you are getting for Christmas,before you unwrap the presents.;)
Thank You...just some thoughts.
Because most people just care about them selves, its sad but true
because its upstairs for dancing and downstairs for thinking...they need to switch and start thinking with their minds!! lol
I don't understand LOL
because men don't care about the love, they care about finding an answer. it's like they're genetically programmed to forget feelings easily if they don't have an explanation to everything a woman does/is.
you are right, i suppose it is easy to assume they just don't care at all when realistically the care just sort of lessens when they are looking for their answers..
I don't think I'll understand girls even if I try