"Women are meant to be loved not to be understood" Oscar Wilde. Why don't most men understand this yet?
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I aspire to be loved and understood as a person, not simply as a female. I'm a person first, female second. Oscar Wilde didn't really love or understand women as far as I can tell from his writing.
But anyway... :)Like (3)
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I love this answer. Thank you. We don't have accept a saying just because a great writer said it. Everybody is human after all.Like (1)
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Yes, thank you so much, I agree :) I always prefer to return on our commonality as humans rather than focus exclusively on gender based divides.
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If we are to meet our minds, not just gonads, understanding is essential.
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it would require an effort?
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Effort is too big a concept for the lazy amongst us
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Soo True. Yet why do more women not understand this too? Because I think we are not meant to understand. That would take all the excitement out of it.
Kind of like knowing what you are getting for Christmas,before you unwrap the presents.;)Like (2)
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love your answer...very wise.
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Thank You...just some thoughts.
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I try to understand each and every person I interact with, regardless of gender. I think women can be understood too, if they are treated as people.
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I agree, it not always about gender, but unconditional love does not need understanding when it is present because it comes with acceptance and trust.
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I respect your views. To me, though, one only tries to understand a person if he/she loves or cares for them unconditionally (or conditionally, if they were psychiatrists expecting a wad of cash in return). If you don't understand a person's motives or intentions, it is very difficult to trust a person, if not as difficult to accept them.
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Man, I wish they would hurry up and get it!!!!
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Even if just a couple got it then it could spread like a virus. Wilde was a victorian so it not breaking news x
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because its upstairs for dancing and downstairs for thinking...they need to switch and start thinking with their minds!! lol
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That could cause a revolution x
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I don't understand LOL
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because men don't care about the love, they care about finding an answer. it's like they're genetically programmed to forget feelings easily if they don't have an explanation to everything a woman does/is.
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Some truth here. Too sweeping to say men don't care about love but very true that they search for answers and do seek explanations. x
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you are right, i suppose it is easy to assume they just don't care at all when realistically the care just sort of lessens when they are looking for their answers..
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I don't think I'll understand girls even if I try
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It ok not to understand them aslong as you love them
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Because most people just care about them selves, its sad but true
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because most ive met are just out for what they can get and dont deserve love or understanding
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oh dear thats unlucky
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You all would be alright if you would just do everything we told you!! Just kidding
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Posted by RodneyTrotter Jan 30th, 2013 at 6:43AM
Grrrr! I've been getting it the wrong way round all this time, no wonder I'm singular! :)
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Reply by jane343 Jan 30th, 2013 at 7:10AM
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Reply by RodneyTrotter Jan 30th, 2013 at 7:13AM
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