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Women, how would you feel if your hurting a guy was the straw that broke the camels back and made him decide to be gay?

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12 Answers to "Women, how would you feel if your hurting a guy was the straw that broke the camels back and made him decide to be gay?"

  1. xena2 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by xena2 May 15th, 2012 at 12:28AM

    bad relationship doesnt turn anyone gay and it wont make gay person straight it is just the way we are hard wired

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  2. underrock - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by underrock May 15th, 2012 at 12:36AM

    He was already gay..

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  3. shoegirl1972 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by shoegirl1972 May 15th, 2012 at 12:55AM

    No one can make anyone else do anything. However if my "hurting" a guy caused him to finally come out and be what he is I would think that would be awesome and freeing for that guy. Chances are the reason he was hurt in the first place is because I could not fill a void in his life that could only be filled by a male partner. I would be honored to be the catalyst behind this realization and lifestyle change.

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  4. DcreativeBUG - 22-25 years old

    Posted by DcreativeBUG May 15th, 2012 at 12:30AM

    same way a man would feel if a women turned into a lesbian because of ill treatment.

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  5. OsageAphrodite - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by OsageAphrodite May 15th, 2012 at 12:29AM

    Got gay on the brain?

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  6. Blurbel - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by Blurbel May 15th, 2012 at 12:32AM

    You'd like that wouldn't you.

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  7. OsageAphrodite - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by OsageAphrodite May 15th, 2012 at 6:08AM

    perhaps

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  8. chrismark61 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by chrismark61 May 15th, 2012 at 12:28AM

    I am really confused, I thought a gay was born like that, you actually can choose?

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  9. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by WhiteWidowess May 15th, 2012 at 12:29AM

    that is a theoretical opinion : )

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  10. Larceny - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Larceny May 15th, 2012 at 12:28AM

    I think people who "turn gay" after a bad partner were actually gay to start with, and this was just a way of finding out. A hard way perhaps...

    But not all dudes turn gay just because a woman hurts them. Most gay people are born that way, ya know?

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  11. Blurbel - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by Blurbel May 15th, 2012 at 12:30AM

    Yeah I know, I guess it was a bit of a lack of thinking before I asked.

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  12. Larceny - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Larceny May 15th, 2012 at 12:31AM

    At least you know for next time! Hindsight is a wonderful gift ;)

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  13. brwneyz713 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by brwneyz713 May 15th, 2012 at 12:27AM

    be glad i hurt him cuz if he decides to go w/ guys then he was always gay in my opinion & i dodged a bullet there..haha

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  14. 3grnowl - 26-30 years old

    Posted by 3grnowl May 15th, 2012 at 12:27AM

    I don't thing being gay is a decision. Only acting on it. If i was the straw that gets him to act on his sexuality I would be glad to have helped.

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  15. ForEsme - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ForEsme May 15th, 2012 at 12:27AM

    I would think he was lying to himself: either when he was with me (that he was not gay) or when he is with his next partner (that he was gay).

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  16. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by WhiteWidowess May 15th, 2012 at 12:27AM

    I would think he had already been leaning that way

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  17. TheWomanWhoDid - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by TheWomanWhoDid Jan 17th, 2013 at 8:43PM

    He was always gay lovely.... or bi. Some people don't do labels and just love other people.

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