That us a good question. You aren't what your body parts are. I mean do you want to marry a woman 'cause she has a cool mind and loves you and is perfect or you want a big boobed dummy, with no poersonality, no job, no education etc? Women marry guys for their minds and personalities, not penis size....duh!
Women tend to prefer a nice bloke who knows what hes doing regardless of his size. My preference is for curved rather than big,
I do prefer a thick one as opposed to a long one; but really what matters is if they know how to use it or not.