Women Only Please: Why Do Young Girls(17-25) 'Like' Older Guys(40's-)?
Why are young girls in their mid-teens to early 20's find older men to be relationship material?? I know that attraction isn't dependent on age but it seems kind of creepy for older guys to have relationships with young girls
19 Answers to "Women Only Please: Why Do Young Girls(17-25) 'Like' Older Guys(40's-)?"
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older men are much better in bed than young boys they like to please a girl boys just please themselfs older men will be welcome in my bed
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Hmmmm.....let's see. Would you rather watch your guy play video games all day, or would you rather have yer guy take you out to lunch/dinner, and find you much more interesting than "Call of Duty"...
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What is with this stereotype of every young guy sitting at home, playing video games all day and not doing anything..Not every guy fills in to this stereotype, young guys can take a girl out to lunch/dinner 2
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Cause it is true... they might not be playing video games, but they are hanging around doing nothing and usually broke. Girls dont want a scrub that cant take her out for dinner, shopping, or fun places....On top of that young boys only care about getting themselves off, when older guys want to pleasure and please the woman and themselvesLike (1)
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Because guys who are 17-25 are broke.
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I think is because older man know how to treat a woman better, by experience i guess
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Could be, but there are more older creepy guys out there than there are older guys who just haven't met the right girl yet....and those creepy guys set a stereotypical precedent for every other older guy looking to start a relationship with a woman who happens to be younger than them.
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Older guys have more experience, which means they are better at playing mind games, and acting like they are powerful and competent even when they are not.
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Best answer yet...
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I'm pansexual so this goes for trans and women too
People in my age group SUCK. Even though there are some older creepers, I'd rather hang out with a more mature crowd. Someone to talk about life and philosophy and deep things in life, not just freakin' tabloids and celebrities because most of those people mean nothing to me. I'm not jealous, but its annoying when people get paid millions to act like someone they are not.
Older people are more settled down, stern, self assured. Young guys want numbers not romantic late night walks in a park. Young guys want to spread there seed as much as possible and they are so influenced by the culture of treating women's bodys like score points that they can't see past anything else.
Young guys or boring and insecure, just as much as young girls maybe even more. They feel like they have to be macho douche bags to impress their friends. Ugh
Older men have wisdom, knowlege and those alone are sexier than having had 100 "broads" in one week.Like (3)
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I keep hearing of this stereotype of young guys getting a hundred 'broads' in one week, it's not true of every guy....and of course young guys are boring and insecure, they're trying to figure out who they are just like women their own age which makes a lot more sense for young men and women to be together than older'creepy dudes looking for young girls because they know that their fragile minds can be twisted and manipulated to serve their own purposes.
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Well when I wrote this I assumed people would be wise enough to imply "all". And not "all" older guys look for women because they are fragile and want to twist their minds for their own purposes. Anyway I'm speaking on this subjectively not factually
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I am not a women, but I don't think they really want an older guy, they just want a guy that treats them with respects and who is good to them.
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It just seems kinda creepy for a guy past his 40's to be flirting with a teenager like he's still in high school or somethin; figuratively speaking.
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I totallly agree with you. Guys that hit on really young women are creepers IMO. I have younger sisters, they find it creepy too!
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all i can say is who are we to judge anyone its really none of our business what other people do or who they or who they do it with young or old i dont understand people that go on sex chat sites and then take the moral high ground i find that to be a touch hypocritical
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**** off.
I don't know why.
They're just sexy-er. I can't explain it though..Like (2)
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That's what you call creeeepy...
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Every girl longs to be someone's Princess.
A grown man who likes little girl's
knows just what to say and do to groom her
to be his $ex toy.Like (2)
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And doesn't that seem wrong to groom a girl to be objectified by a man just to be 'his' sex toy??
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They looking for a father figure.
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Because older men are more mature and stable. I don't think they like men THAT much older than them. But yes, it's very creepy.
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I think we want to have a boyfriend, who has experiences and behaves in a more mature way. It's not because the boys in our ages are not mature enough. It is because the older men seem more attractive. Their behaviours and perspectives of life are different. Maybe we also feel more secure with them.
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Girls mature faster than boys, so a lot of times when girls are looking for someone to be with, they seek out someone with a similar level of maturity and it's hard to find that in your late teens and early 20's with same-aged boys/men. Plus, they're mysterious, experienced, and can help a girl feel safe.
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So girls in their early 20's prefer a 40-year old man they probly have nothing in common with than a peer of her own age that might just act his age. got it.
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Lol, I'm just saying why some girls do that. I was kind of referring to a smaller age difference though, like 18 with 25 or 23 with 30. The bigger gaps like you're talking about usually make me think they have daddy issues of some sort.
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I never did. nor did my friends. we were creeped out by that and my neices are as well. of course they are all gorgeous. The thing is an older man might give a young woman a family which a young man may not want at the same time. There is that societal pressure for women to marry and the young ladies are impatient sometimes and may actually be attracted to the confidence and security offered by a man who can provide them with the things they want--marriage, kids, home, car. plus they can get training in lots of things--I mean an older man should be able to teach them a few things without a lot of fuss. nothing like experience.
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Of course young women have fantasies of getting married but older men shouldn't manipulate them into a relationship so they can 'fulfill' their fantasy of being married and starting a family, and most of the time, guys are just looking for one thing, sex.
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Well, I guess from a mans point of view...Who the hell cares?
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Men should care because young guys like me are getting a bad rep because older guys seem like the better choice when it comes to relationships and dating....women are saying young guys are good-for-nothing losers and the older creepy guys looking for little sex toys are getting all the gr8 women out there.
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WHOA.... No one is giving anyone a bad name but the people doing the action.....Older women so called Cougars are nothing more than dirty old women.... Sorry it is what it is Sin. I have a couple of young men that I work with that I respect more that a couple of the older guys . Both young men are respectful and will help out anyone who asks.While the older me have reverted to just above perverted.... Did you notice the difference between the way i used guys and men.? Men and i do mean Men are wonderful,while a Gentleman is a true treasure to find..
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older men know how to make a girl feel special. they treat her like a lady. they are more stable. financially and emotionally
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I'm not talking about all older guys just the guys who flirt with teenage girls because they have some sikk fantasy of having a young girl sleep with them.
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as long as they dont go under 18. personally i dont like creepy but some girls might like creepy. who knows. to **** off her parents maybe
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I didn't know they did!
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by Astronoma Aug 21st, 2012 at 7:09PM
Well, as I found out several decades later, yes, it is sort of creepy. In retrospect. At the time: well. . . .when I was 15, I was getting ready to rock. All the boys I knew were just dweebs and kids to me. To get any intelligent appreciation (or what seemed like it at the time), men several years older seemed attractive. Mind you, I'm not talking about men in their 40s. I meant, for me, about 10 - 12 years older. And that was in the 60s. The only thing I can say about girls 'liking' guys their father's age is pretty obvious. Their own father proved inadequate at being the father of daughters. The female instinct is to protect family, even if she is treated badly or unfairly. She feels, instinctively, that there must be a better relationship out there. Except that by the time she's in the 17 - 25 age group, she understands that she will be expected to engage in sex. Which means she is obviously in a very, very conflicted state of mind, desperately wants protection. In fact, for many young girls, it's like the protection of marriage - you only have to deal with one guy. He will keep the rest of them off of you. And for that essential margin of safety, she will align herself with this father age lover, despite knowing how unequal the relationship really is. In such an unequal situation, 'true love' is very unlikely to find a way.
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