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Women say looks don't matter, do you believe them?

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    brandi0r000 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by brandi0r000 Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:04PM

    Of course looks matter. Sheesh.

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18 Answers to "Women say looks don't matter, do you believe them?"

  1. conceptualclarity - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by conceptualclarity Aug 30th, 2012 at 7:38AM

    No. But looks for women get squeezed into a bugger matrix that includes masculinity, dominance, money, etc.

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  2. Intelligently - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Intelligently Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:16PM

    Everything matters. What women who say "looks" don't matter probably means is that they themselves are not attracted to the typical socially acceptable idea of what an attractive man is.

    I fall into that category by the way. Looks matter to me, but not because I like "hot" guys. Just that some features are more attractive to me than others.. and also that looks aren't the most important thing on my list of qualities I look for in a man.

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  3. TessaDarling - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TessaDarling Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:04PM

    They're full of ****.

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  4. Crazyboi21 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Crazyboi21 Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:04PM

    Yes.

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  5. fundamentalhuman - 31-35 years old

    Posted by fundamentalhuman Jan 22nd, 2013 at 11:41PM

    Well good looks don't have the same influence to women to the same degree it has to men. Most women get attracted to a broader range of qualities, rather than just the physical attributes and would only go into a sexual relationship or any relationship if they value a lot more than the looks of the person. On the opposite hand men would jump into bed with the first pair of good looking boobs. If the pair of good looking boobs happens to be acceptable enough as a person, they'll dive into a relationship for the sake of physical satisfaction only, ignoring the fact there can be a sensitive soul between the pair of boobs.
    So to answer your question, it's not that looks don't matter, but a woman is hardly tempted into having a relationship on the basis of just a good looking face and a pair of muscles without personality.

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  6. 40beeens - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by 40beeens Sep 1st, 2012 at 9:29PM

    I wouldn't believe anyone who said that. Looks are often given far too much importance but to deny the influence on you of other peoples appearance is a bit disingenuous.

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  7. Shaun225 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by Shaun225 Sep 1st, 2012 at 10:05PM

    I just want an honest answer. Its an unfair world.

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  8. guessjeans - 51-55 years old

    Posted by guessjeans Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:50PM

    C'mon, some looks can give certain people an eyesore. We're from all walks of life, not everyone is attractive to the same people. Either they're lying through their teeth or their own look falls below average.

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  9. drscorpio - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by drscorpio Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:20PM

    They matter... at first at least... but once your in love with someone its not that big a deal anymore... But initially yes i hate to break it looks matter and medical science has proved it...

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  10. MasterDragonfly - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by MasterDragonfly Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:17PM

    Looks don't matter, until they do. Then it's a deal-breaker.

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  11. facemanct - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by facemanct Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:09PM

    Its a yes/no answer, Looks matter on first sight; But when you know someone and you get to like them, an average or plan looking person gets better an better looking as you get to love the real person.

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  12. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:08PM

    ye$$, of cour$$se

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  13. hertoy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by hertoy Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:07PM

    Looks matter to men and women. My wife has very distinct likes and dislikes with mens looks,( she likes my looks!),but what she considers ugly, she would rather be alone than be with them.

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  14. Spann0r - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Spann0r Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:06PM

    Before you get to know somebody, looks are all you got. They do matter and decide whether you get to know someone or not, unless the situation forces you to get to know them anyways.

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  15. Shaun225 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by Shaun225 Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:09PM

    That is so shallow though

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  16. Spann0r - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by Spann0r Aug 30th, 2012 at 4:58AM

    In deed it is. Sadly I've never seen or heard anyone saying: "Mhh, he is not pretty, but I'm gonna start flirting with him now, because he might be a wonderful person on the inside." In fact I notice myself not thinking that way. At least everybody has a different definition of beauty or a certain fetish.

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  17. DrPestKontrolle1881 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by DrPestKontrolle1881 Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:05PM

    Not at all.

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  18. Behopefull - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Behopefull Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:05PM

    looks do matter there has to be some kind of physical attraction

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  19. BronzeEspada - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by BronzeEspada Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:04PM

    No. Looks dont matter after you get to know someone, but before you get to know them, they do matter.

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  20. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Aug 29th, 2012 at 7:04PM

    They say that?

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