Every woman wants something different. But giving an actual **** about her is pretty much universal. I think we just need to know that you care, always. It's not so much about big gestures, it's just the little stuff, the every day stuff that shows that you're thinking of her. It's like a "needs" bar on the Sims...it goes down if it isn't maintained.
Well, that's good, but you still have to find the RIGHT girl. You can't just be all awesome for any girl that looks your way. You have to actually fall in love. Which takes time. And effort. As does anything worthwhile. =]
I think it varies by couple, but I agree that there is more work to it than most people realize. You've go the heart and the quality, just have to be patient. And for the record, being a virgin is sexy at any age, if you're waiting for the right person. =] Best wishes to you.
Just be yourself :)
You wouldn't do ANYTHING, or you wouldn't be a virgin. But, don't worry about it. It will happen. Just keep believing that it can. And get out and do the things you enjoy. <3
It hasn't happened YET...that doesn't mean it won't. Be patient. Enjoy being single...there are things you won't be able to do once your lady comes along. In the meantime, appreciate the place that you are now...so when she comes along, you will have no regrets. Be patient!
I used to have social anxiety...I understand. But, if you take life one day at a time and try to not rush anything...you will find that things have a way of working out. <3
If you want to ask women out, then ask them out...the only fear to overcome is the fear of rejection...but when the fear of growing old alone exceeds the fear of rejection, you will take courage! :D
Take courage. Don't fear rejection. If they reject you, they've done you a favor. You wouldn't want to invest 6 months or a few years only to find out she is a *&^%$...better to know up front. Don't worry about it...there is someone for everyone! <3
Lolzz. See they all want different things. They are confused. Sorry ladies but you are a naive creation of the creator
I am talking about the ladies. From your profile you seem a male creature
Yes you are missing out a lot but that opposite sex creature will make you bamboozled.
Just be yourself and genuine.
a pizza, a beer and a nap. ;)
The thing is most women seem to not respect themselves so they are used to being treated badly. That makes them not know what they want and that hurts both sides.
Very possibly true, but I personally respect myself and even I don't always know what I want. Knowing what one truly desires can be a truly difficult thing sometimes. I really think though, is that women are contradictory. We like one thing...but we also like the opposite. For example, most women like the "bad boy" but they also like the "sensitive, brooding" type. We're just very complex creatures and it's annoying even to us. -sigh-
Yea while i respect peoples way of life, it frustrates me on what you said. It makes me wonder if all i did to make myself appealing was worth it.
It's not our "way of life" it's the way we were wired. It's not like we are complicated to be ********, you know. As for the other, making yourself into something you're not might attract "A" woman, but it likely won't attract the right one. You have to be who you are so that the right girl will see it and love you for exactly that.
i could not think of the right word, its pretty late where i live. Its just that my last ex made the first move and she told me how good looking she thought i was. But she just dumped me to sleep around.
So you had a bad experience with a *****. Keep on truckin', as it were. If finding the right woman was easy, it wouldn't be quite as amazing when it does happen.
Yea, its almost ironic how all these values of dressing well and respecting women etc does not work that well.
I mean i could be all charming but most of the times some women take it for granted.
"Some." Just like you said. Not all. You can't take a small sample of girls and assume you understand the whole damn race, ya feel? Don't give up, keep searching.
yup and thats the only reason why he can act like that, if other people act that way they are *******. Everyone seems to have to be overly nice to make friends.