Would you be happy in a marriage of the highest quality in all respects but one--it completely lacked S E X ?
59 Answers to "Would you be happy in a marriage of the highest quality in all respects but one--it completely lacked S E X ?"
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I'm in such a situation. Obviously not completely happy in a sexless marriage, but my wife is wonderful.....she needs to take a number of medications & has no interest in sex, but she's there for me and the family in every other way. I wouldn't say I'm unhappy, but I'm a little bit frustrated at not having sex the last few years.
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That's just friendship. I already have that.
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Yes. S ex would not be the pivotal thing in my marriage.
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Hell,no.
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add me... and let's discuss remedial ;p> therapies :)Like (1)
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Getting frisky is part of it.. unless there was a horrible accident too the guy :(
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Been there...Like (1)
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sorry to hear thisLike (1)
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As long as it doesn't give cause for big dramas, it's something you can live with.
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I have a happy marriage and it is with out sex. Not the way I want it but after I accepted the fact that she didn't want to have sex the fighting stopped. We don't fight anymore. The arguements were very rarely about sex, just pent up frustration, so I am on here to share thoughts, and pics. I get my frustrations out by writing. I also ********** a lot but I did that even when I was having sex.
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It would be the perfect relationship/marriage for me!!
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Hell, no. If a marriage did not resolve the sexual fulfillment problem It's hard to imagine how the pros could outweigh the cons. Given the fact that marriage IS in part the taking of another person as one's sexual partner, the denial of sex is a betrayal and a rejection whose importance cannot be exaggerated. I considers non-disabled wives and husbands who refuse sex long term to be phony spouses who deserve to be cheated on or divorced, although I do not condone cheating and marriage-breaking.
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I AM
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Definitely. I don't really care for sex.
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Im in it, its damn hard let me tell you.....if the lack of sex is for health reasons and you still totally love that person what can you do but deal with it....
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N-O.
The ONLY exception would be due to an illness that renders one of the spouses unable to have sex, in which case S-E-X could be understandably set aside, but the relationship as a whole might grow closer, get better.
On the other hand, if physical healing took place, and health was restored, in a truly loving relationship, that couple who loved one another through those tough times are likely to blow the doors off their bedroom.Like (2)
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yep, my sex drive isnt what it use to be plus we'd be able to do other things for a change lol
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no sex is a very important part of a high quality marriage. There is no other closeness that can replace it. No other offering you can give to your partner other than an internal organ that is more satisfying.
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No.
'Happiness in a marriage' is not complete without sex.Like (2)
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lacked intercourse or a variation of sex that both found mutually enjoyable
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Im in one! And im not happy! but thats not because of no sex... its because of the constant bickering :-(
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I'm pretty much in one of these relationships right now. About 80% of the time I am happy, but whenever I get extremely horny I go looking for *****. So far I haven't cheated, but I really haven't had the opportunity to either.
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Posted by 1honestgirl Aug 16th, 2012 at 11:21AM
Thats like asking if you'd be happy with a Cadillac without wheels.
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Reply by Bornabrit Aug 17th, 2012 at 10:16AM
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