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  1. lizagirl69 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by lizagirl69 Aug 18th, 2011 at 10:28PM

    I would have to say "no, I would not change my gender." There are several reasons for this answer. First off my gender is female, though my sex is not. So many people confuse sex and gender and use them interchangeably to mean the same thing and they do not mean the same. Simply put Gender is how we feel, think, act, and present ourselves to the world and sex is our genetic make up, the reproductive organs that we were born with. I have spent a lifetime reading all the medical books and papers I could get my hands on, 16 years of detailed research, plus my own person experience trying to determine who and what I was; for a more detailed definition read on:
    {1} Gender [1] Sometimes called “Brain Sex.” Gender is one's psychological identification with a particular sex and its social role, etc., rather than sexual anatomy. It is how a person sees himself or herself as female or male, irrespective of their anatomical sex. Gender includes body image and preferred social role, etc. Sex and gender are distinctly different terms that are often confused and should never be used interchangeably, even though this often happens. (See Sex) [2] A person's internal and perceived identity of masculinity and femininity. For most people this is really clear cut and congruent with their anatomical sex; but for some it can be rather fluid or completely opposite of their anatomical sex. When you look into a person and try to understand how they feel then you get closer to their gender. When you are saying that someone is a female or male you do not look at their anatomical sex, that is a personal and private matter and unless you are very intimate with that person it needs to be left out of the equation; instead you look at their gender, their psychological identity, to determine if the person is a female or male. There is mounting evidence from scientific research that the brain is in fact hardwired to be female or male; contrary to popular belief that it is trained to be female or male via a person's upbringing. The fact is that the brain will take just so much training towards being female or male until it has a melt down and reverts to it's hardwired state.
    {2} Sex: [1] The physical anatomy of the genitalia; the organs of reproduction. [2] A person's biological determination to be female or male; but in this world of ours, Mother Nature throws a little variety into the mix and there are intersexed people, males with female genitalia, females with male genitalia, and some with varying combinations of both. Basically the common western culture thought that, male genitalia = XY chromosomes = male; and female genitalia = XX chromosomes = female, does not necessarily determine if the person is really a female or male, only their psychological identification does. In fact we all started out as a female in our mother's wombs and then before birth those who have male genitalia mutated to what they now look like, so basically a male is just a mutated female.

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  2. JacquieTG - 46-50 years old

    Reply by JacquieTG Aug 18th, 2011 at 7:47PM

    I could not have said it better. I don't know if I should feel insulted, confused or amused when people ask me if I am a real TG person. I don't know why anyone would live like this if they didn't feel like they had to. The hours and days of sadness and lonelyness punctuated by moments of exilleration when you get to feel like the person you know you should have been. I envy those that can finally achieve their goal but live with where I am in my life. Having said that I would not trade the life I have lived knowing and living it with the loves of my life - my daughters and grandson and yes the time I spent with my exwife. We have all been dealt a hand and I have played it they way I had to and I am satisfied with that but I now have a new hand and I will play it too as I see fit. Finally, I have found a few new close friends here and even though we have never met in person I feel as though they are my closest and dearest friends and I can say without equivication that I really love them as much as any friend can love another friend.

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  3. Mules93 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Mules93 Jun 14th, 2011 at 1:46AM

    In a HEARTBEAT!

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  4. missytiger - 61-65 years old

    Posted by missytiger May 8th, 2011 at 12:50AM

    does a fish like water? you bet i would and never look back

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  5. Tracirae321 - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Tracirae321 Apr 26th, 2013 at 6:49PM

    Yes . I am changing not trying its just who I am

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  6. killerlegs - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by killerlegs Feb 25th, 2013 at 6:34AM

    Would like to. But then would I lose interest in my desire to live in pantyhose and lingerie, as well as all feminine attire. Will lose interest in all the essences that make a lady, a lady!! Would I take it all for granted ....and desire to be a male????? Sheesh!! Is that overthinking or what??

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  7. ericaharris - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by ericaharris Jan 26th, 2013 at 8:30AM

    Dear Anto
    Yes i would if i had the money i would become a real girl head to too,it would make the only dream i have left came thru.
    Big kiss plasticgirl

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  8. tigfelat - 56-60 years old

    Posted by tigfelat Nov 15th, 2012 at 3:29AM

    In a heart beat

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  9. Patricia699 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Patricia699 Oct 22nd, 2012 at 1:23PM

    No. I enjoy my body the way it is.

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  10. Keliegh - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Keliegh Oct 10th, 2012 at 3:37PM

    Yes oh yes
    I would love to be a woman full time.

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  11. christy2u - 56-60 years old

    Posted by christy2u Jul 17th, 2012 at 9:25AM

    Yes !!!

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  12. Nightylover - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Nightylover Jun 30th, 2012 at 5:46PM

    Yes!!!!!

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  13. jon200547 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by jon200547 Jun 14th, 2012 at 8:58PM

    yes I would love to if I could do that

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  14. chillsdavis - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by chillsdavis May 25th, 2012 at 10:50AM

    No, I have always enjoyed being male.

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  15. veroniee - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by veroniee May 17th, 2012 at 12:20PM

    YES and YES and YES

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  16. butchbitch1 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by butchbitch1 Mar 2nd, 2012 at 5:51AM

    Oh indeed YES I am in the process of doing so and it gives me comfort

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  17. kirstygirl36 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by kirstygirl36 Oct 6th, 2011 at 11:51PM

    I'm in the process now...Of course I feel that I have always been a woman, but now my outside appearence is finally matching my soul.

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  18. sexysedra - 31-35 years old

    Posted by sexysedra Oct 5th, 2011 at 9:17PM

    already did giggle :P

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  19. Karalee2 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by Karalee2 Aug 22nd, 2011 at 5:37PM

    Yes Yes Yes I would change my gender.

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  20. missygirly - 56-60 years old

    Posted by missygirly Aug 18th, 2011 at 12:09PM

    absolutely without question and never look back, this past Saturday i went to give blood , and they asked my gender than the woman said male and i said female but she just laughed and put down male. later when we finished the screening process she asked if everything was right and i said all except for gender but again she just laughed. I guess people just see what they want to see, and hear what they want to hear.

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  21. purecotton - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by purecotton Aug 18th, 2011 at 4:16AM

    Absolutely not. I love my **** & want to keep it. Can't think of anything worse than having to strap boobs up every day if I don't have to.

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  22. tillin60

    Reply by tillin60 May 15th, 2013 at 8:15PM

    claro que lo haria me ayudas

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